is any one in this forum who sponsored a spouse more then once....

[rathika]

well guys i need ur help.....this will be my second time sponsoring a spouse....my ex i sponsored him more then 4 yrs back... after that

our marriage break down...i end up in the hospital for 1yr after trying to kill my self by jumping a 6th floor balcony........thank god i made

it alive. ever since that i been divorce from him....when i went back home in 2008 dec i met a guy we been friends till november 2009 he

said he love me..i also love him..........i went down to meet him march 2010 stayed 4 two months ........after coming back he asked his

family if he can marry me but his family said no cause i was married before.......but even after they refused we still got married with out

telling them ..we had a small wedding with 18 guest on october 2.2010 ......when i came back i send in my application in on november

29.2010 i send with the applicaton photos ,e-mail,greeting cards letters what he send me...and money tranfer reciept .........also his

police medical clearance,...but i haven't heard anything from cic-m yet..my question is will it affect my application if im on odsp and also

being a sponsored 1 time before....i dont owe the government anything due to my previous sponsor...i'm so worried :'( can some one tell

me what will happen with my application?

p.s my husband was born on 1984 feb..and i was born on 1982 july he is buddist and i am chirtian will this also affect in any way.. :-\

 

[lovebajan]

Hey,
Try not to worry too much. If you meet the specifications of a sponsor in their eyes, that's all that counts. I sponsored my ex-husband in 2003...meet my new husband in 2007...got married in 2009...started sponsoring him in 2010...they asked for his passport...we sent it in and now we are waiting for it to come back!!...we have a difference of 5 years between us (i'm older)! So, it will be alright. Keep thinking positively, I know it's hard, but try! (Hope this helps)
Good luck!

 

[New Wife]

I agree worrying will only make things worse. I would not worry if you haven't heard back from CIC-M yet. It has been less that 30 days. Average time is 30-40 days to process your sponsorship part. And with the holiday's it might be delayed a little because the government offices are closed a couple of week days for the holiday's.

Take heart you will hear something soon!

 

[rathika]

Hey,
Try not to worry too much. If you meet the specifications of a sponsor in their eyes, that's all that counts. I sponsored my ex-husband in 2003...meet my new husband in 2007...got married in 2009...started sponsoring him in 2010...they asked for his passport...we sent it in and now we are waiting for it to come back!!...we have a difference of 5 years between us (i'm older)! So, it will be alright. Keep thinking positively, I know it's hard, but try! (Hope this helps)
Good luck!

hi lovebajan thankyou so much i was so worried thinking that i'm the only one sponsoring twice........but after reading ur it

makes me feel better.......how long it took u to get a reply from cic-m .........thanks agin

 

[rathika]

I agree worrying will only make things worse. I would not worry if you haven't heard back from CIC-M yet. It has been less that 30 days. Average time is 30-40 days to process your sponsorship part. And with the holiday's it might be delayed a little because the government offices are closed a couple of week days for the holiday's.

Take heart you will hear something soon!

hi new wife......thankyou ur rite worrying will make things worse thanks for ur reply.......