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gatoangelaml

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My friend is an international student in London, Canada and got pregnant with her boyfriend who is also an international student who is a married man in their home country.
What will happen to the baby, with my friend and with the boyfriend?
 

YVR123

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My friend is an international student in London, Canada and got pregnant with her boyfriend who is also an international student who is a married man in their home country.
What will happen to the baby, with my friend and with the boyfriend?
Are you asking a relationship counseling question?
Canada doesn't care about people having kids with married man.
Your friend's decision on her life.

She needs to continue to study full time to keep her study permit valid. (and likely for her health insurance)
Nothing will happen to her boyfriend. If they are living together for 12 months continuously, they need to declare as common law partner.
 
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canuck78

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Would add that she (and her partner) can decide whether having a child is the right decision for them at this moment. Abortion care is legal in Canada. She (both of them) need to discuss the implications of having a child at this stage of their lives and have a plan. Raising a child in Canada is both difficult and expensive and they also likely have no family support and may not have a lot of resources. Their immigration status complicates things even more. They may want to sit down with the international student advisor at their school who could counsel them about potential for time off, healthcare coverage, potential childcare options and costs available at the school, etc. As a Canadian they may also be able to point out general things they should consider. Sadly as a woman and given the situation, your friend needs to consider the potential societal implications in her home country and the potential that she may have to raise the child alone. She needs to think about her plans with or without her partner just to protect herself. There may be a Counsellor available at her school or a community group member (who hopefully has had kids in Canada) to talk to if her family is not a resource at the moment. If the goal is to become a PR she needs to consider how having a young child will impact her ability to work and live in Canada and qualify for PR. She would also have to consider how she may finish her studies and support herself and child at the same time. A Canadian child does not guarantee status for their parents. Don’t envy your friend. Having a child even when in a professional job as a Canadian can be very challenging. I wish your friend the best no matter what she decides is best for her life at the moment.
 
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