Seriously, that's very rude and inappropriate. Who are you to say who is or who isn't allowed on here just because they won't tell you what you want to hear ( namely because it's wrong and should be illegal in my mind)? Suck it up buttercup, you made a mistake, deal with it like an adult. This forum is here for those people who have some insight because they have done it before to give advice to those who have not. That is why they are on here as PR's, they know what they are talking about because they've done it themselves. It's an invaluable resource and they are much needed. This process, can be confusing, arduous and even scary at times. Many of us, myself included, find their advice and support as a godsend. I'm sorry for you in the fact that you think everyone should pander to you and tell you it will be ok. But you aren't five, you made a bad choice, whether intentional or not, and you need to deal with it as an adult. Just come clean and go from there.