I know the title is a handful and I've looked around all over the website and I cant seem to find anyone that has the same issue as me.
Short backstory: I met my husband (then boyfriend at the time) online and after being together for 2 years, I decided I wanted us to be together in person. I didn't really understand how immigration and all that worked. I thought I could just drive over the border, tell them I wanted to stay for six months while we got married and filled out our spousal sponsorship application and then leave while we waited for it to be approved. Since I was planning on staying for six months, I quit my job back home and since I lived with my parents and had no job, I was denied entry under the pretense that i didnt have 'reason to return to the us' and since I clearly had an intent to move to canada, they didn't think it was a good idea. I was refused entry and drove back home (This was in April) After a month of crying and hating my life we decided to hire an immigration lawyer to help us and she even told me I said way too much at the border. With her help and a lot of begging and tears, I was allowed entry to canada in July when flying in through Toronto. We married and after many roadbumps we took, forever to get our stuff together for our Inland Spousal Application.
My six month visitor status expire on January 24th and I applied for an extension on Dec 26th or so, so a month in advance like recommended on the website but to much dismay my extension was refused this morning, I'm assuming bc of my history and being turned away at the border even thought it was an honest mistake. In the refusal letter, it says that they dont believe I have reason to return to the us when my extension is over (fucking obviously, I'm literally in the process of moving here why would I want to leave) but our lawyers have submitted our sponsorship application and BOWP together om Feb 12th. My lawyer say's I'm still under implied status for that application but I read online that I'm not under implied status.
I'm extremely confused and waiting for her to reply, but I dont think I'll get a response till morning and even then it'll do little to make me feel better.
My question will my history of being refused at the border and having my extension refused affect my BOWP application? Like could I get refused for it just bc I was refused for the other two?
I'm very desperate to not leave my husband. After not being able to be together for about two years and then coming here and being with him for the past six months, it's gonna be extremely difficult for me to leave him and on top of that have to go back to my parents and just...wait.
Does anyone have any advice or kind words of encouragement? My husband and I feel very alone right now and since it's taking my lawyer so long to reply to my email with a bunch of questions (her office is two hours ahead of our timezone and he works nights so we're not usually up till the afternoon when its already sort of late for her) it's giving me more anxiety and I feel like I'm just staring at a scary void.
Edit: I should have included my husband is a white Canada Born citizen from Nova Scotia (his family didnt move here from a different country or anything like that) and I'm a naturalized US Citizen of 4 years
Short backstory: I met my husband (then boyfriend at the time) online and after being together for 2 years, I decided I wanted us to be together in person. I didn't really understand how immigration and all that worked. I thought I could just drive over the border, tell them I wanted to stay for six months while we got married and filled out our spousal sponsorship application and then leave while we waited for it to be approved. Since I was planning on staying for six months, I quit my job back home and since I lived with my parents and had no job, I was denied entry under the pretense that i didnt have 'reason to return to the us' and since I clearly had an intent to move to canada, they didn't think it was a good idea. I was refused entry and drove back home (This was in April) After a month of crying and hating my life we decided to hire an immigration lawyer to help us and she even told me I said way too much at the border. With her help and a lot of begging and tears, I was allowed entry to canada in July when flying in through Toronto. We married and after many roadbumps we took, forever to get our stuff together for our Inland Spousal Application.
My six month visitor status expire on January 24th and I applied for an extension on Dec 26th or so, so a month in advance like recommended on the website but to much dismay my extension was refused this morning, I'm assuming bc of my history and being turned away at the border even thought it was an honest mistake. In the refusal letter, it says that they dont believe I have reason to return to the us when my extension is over (fucking obviously, I'm literally in the process of moving here why would I want to leave) but our lawyers have submitted our sponsorship application and BOWP together om Feb 12th. My lawyer say's I'm still under implied status for that application but I read online that I'm not under implied status.
I'm extremely confused and waiting for her to reply, but I dont think I'll get a response till morning and even then it'll do little to make me feel better.
My question will my history of being refused at the border and having my extension refused affect my BOWP application? Like could I get refused for it just bc I was refused for the other two?
I'm very desperate to not leave my husband. After not being able to be together for about two years and then coming here and being with him for the past six months, it's gonna be extremely difficult for me to leave him and on top of that have to go back to my parents and just...wait.
Does anyone have any advice or kind words of encouragement? My husband and I feel very alone right now and since it's taking my lawyer so long to reply to my email with a bunch of questions (her office is two hours ahead of our timezone and he works nights so we're not usually up till the afternoon when its already sort of late for her) it's giving me more anxiety and I feel like I'm just staring at a scary void.
Edit: I should have included my husband is a white Canada Born citizen from Nova Scotia (his family didnt move here from a different country or anything like that) and I'm a naturalized US Citizen of 4 years