I appreciate your reply.You may want to try the conjugal partner option. Based on "shared shelter" and "societal perception of the two as a couple" two stated grounds, added to "sexual and personal behaviour" and "economic support" between you, you could try to define your now legal spouse(still illegal in your country) was your conjugal partner and not eligible nor possible to be included in your original application.
You can use proving docs such as religious barriers and Denmark marriage certificate alike to write down your story. Though your spouse has used your common address in the TRV application, it does not necessarily mean you have stepped into a common-law relationship thereupon. Rather, it may state as a commitment between you two in recognizing each other.
The whole logic chain has to be clearly connected and proved by solid proof in convincing the officer.
The story you described is actually our story. I have no reason whatsoever not to disclose her other than the fact that it is illegal and I cannot prove it.In fact including her would have boosted my score and made this process less lonely and hard. I did all this thinking its the only way to do it.
We simply did not include her because of lack of evidence and legality of our situation.
I need a lawyer to help me do you know of any?