Husbands interview went wrong! ;(

[gurabija]

On Oct 17th my husband went for an interview at an IOM office. The interviewer (lady) did not accept pictures, nothing that would proof our relationship, for my plain ticket said it is not valid. She confused him that much that he was crying like a baby. She was telling him through the interview that I should go back and live back home with him if we want to be together. She also told him that she thinks that he just want to come to Canada to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have to leave my job, and everything here now to go back to my husband. Probably there is no other way to be together. Our marriage is not fake, we love each other to death.
I have never experienced this much stress in my life, never felt this much pain and humiliation. Thank you CANADA!

The only thing she said at the end to the translator is that "Tell him your wife can appeal"!

Human rights, CANADA!
Destroyed my life.

 

[gurabija]

Also it was going through Vienna, but his interview was held in Kosovo.
The interviewer was so rude, I dont want to believe this is happening. I hope it is a nightmare from which I will wake up!

 

[Asukal]

On Oct 17th my husband went for an interview at an IOM office. The interviewer (lady) did not accept pictures, nothing that would proof our relationship, for my plain ticket said it is not valid. She confused him that much that he was crying like a baby. She was telling him through the interview that I should go back and live back home with him if we want to be together. She also told him that she thinks that he just want to come to Canada to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have to leave my job, and everything here now to go back to my husband. Probably there is no other way to be together. Our marriage is not fake, we love each other to death.
I have never experienced this much stress in my life, never felt this much pain and humiliation. Thank you CANADA!

The only thing she said at the end to the translator is that "Tell him your wife can appeal"!

Human rights, CANADA!
Destroyed my life.

That so alarming, how come your husband did not defend himself?

 

[gurabija]

He tried. She was telling him not to explain to just answer short. When she was answering short she was telling him to explain. She was telling him that I should go back if we want to be together. At the end he said we will be together no mather where. She said I need to go back to ex-Yugoslavia, he told her thats my wife she will come back if there is no way. She told him, she sould!

I am sorry I am so traumatized and under stress probably whatever I type now doesnt make sense.

 

[Asukal]

He tried. She was telling him not to explain to just answer short. When she was answering short she was telling him to explain. She was telling him that I should go back if we want to be together. At the end he said we will be together no mather where. She said I need to go back to ex-Yugoslavia, he told her thats my wife she will come back if there is no way. She told him, she sould!

I am sorry I am so traumatized and under stress probably whatever I type now doesnt make sense.

But the VO told your husband you can appeal.its not the end of the rope.

 

[gurabija]

Thah means that he was denied. It also means that family is nothing here. They make you look like a loser and a criminal. Its unhumane, to tell someone if you want to be with your wife she has to come back from Canada. Nothing changed on the online status.

 

[Mrs. D]

Also it was going through Vienna, but his interview was held in Kosovo.
The interviewer was so rude, I dont want to believe this is happening. I hope it is a nightmare from which I will wake up!

Yes Gursbija you have the right to appeal and report ths rude officer...can get help of immigration attorney to help u on this. I remembered my youngest sister sge 12 that time when had her interview in in uk embassy. He s so rude and my sister didnt stop cryng for wks..we appealed after and reported ths incident. Thnks to God it was granted..Dont quit

 

[gurabija]

Mrs. D, can you please help me as I can see you know what you are talking about.
I am on the verge of a nervous break down.
You can PM me with suggestions.
Thank you...

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Yes Gursbija you have the right to appeal and report ths rude officer...can get help of immigration attorney to help u on this. I remembered my youngest sister sge 12 that time when had her interview in in uk embassy. He s so rude and my sister didnt stop cryng for wks..we appealed after and reported ths incident. Thnks to God it was granted..Dont quit
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[nanapush]

Thah means that he was denied. It also means that family is nothing here. They make you look like a loser and a criminal. Its unhumane, to tell someone if you want to be with your wife she has to come back from Canada. Nothing changed on the online status.

If you are legally in canada and you are married then you should appeal. Was your application rejected after the interview? If the interviewer says you can appeal then you should but you may need the help of a lawyer.

Are you in western or eastern canada?

 

[gurabija]

I am married, I am also a canadian citizen. How do I find a good immigration lawyer that knows what he/she is doing? And I dont have all the money in the world?

 

[nanapush]

I am married, I am also a canadian citizen. How do I find a good immigration lawyer that knows what he/she is doing? And I dont have all the money in the world?

Are you in Western or Eastern Canada?

 

[Mrs. D]

Mrs. D, can you please help me as I can see you know what you are talking about.
I am on the verge of a nervous break down.
You can PM me with suggestions.
Thank you...

Pm sent..keep going Gurabija....

 

[NicAnn]

How horrible, gurabija.

Have him try again with different interviewer AND translator because maybe translator may have been part of the problem (maybe?), translation problems can be tricky. I know from knowing Dutch that things don't always translate well from one language to another.

Could also be that the interviewer was having a bad day, possibly, and your husband just happened to catch her in a bad time. Try not to take it too personally. I have a rough time with not taking things personally, but I have to keep remembering that. Keep trying, and keep looking for a way through the maze called life.

I'm just beginning this process, haven't filed yet, but am preparing my paperwork, and already running into walls, and haven't even filed! You have gone so far already! I can only imagine what that would be like to make it so far, and then to have something like that happen. :'( But pick up where you left off, and find another way. Try to find a way to get another different interviewer, and find another translator that can help you.

 

[stevelo]

Can you explain how the plain ticket said it is not valid? Was that the reason?

I recommend ordering GCMS notes to see what happened exactly. Did you get them before the interview and what did the notes say?

On Oct 17th my husband went for an interview at an IOM office. The interviewer (lady) did not accept pictures, nothing that would proof our relationship, for my plain ticket said it is not valid. She confused him that much that he was crying like a baby. She was telling him through the interview that I should go back and live back home with him if we want to be together. She also told him that she thinks that he just want to come to Canada to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have to leave my job, and everything here now to go back to my husband. Probably there is no other way to be together. Our marriage is not fake, we love each other to death.
I have never experienced this much stress in my life, never felt this much pain and humiliation. Thank you CANADA!

The only thing she said at the end to the translator is that "Tell him your wife can appeal"!

Human rights, CANADA!
Destroyed my life.

 

[Mrs. D]

I am married, I am also a canadian citizen. How do I find a good immigration lawyer that knows what he/she is doing? And I dont have all the money in the world?

What type of visa you applied for your husband?