I am extremely depressed u cant believe weve waited over one year just to have the interview date after the first interview letter.Kev1n said:
you're almost done! I hope it goes well for you - don't look back on how much you waited, look forward - you finally had the interview, it's over, and you'll know soon. If it's a yes - then great your husband will be there for the pregnancy... if it's a no - well you can appeal right away, and the fact that you have a child (and probably on-going communication etc) will play in your favor!Shiny88 said:
thanks, you are right i am glad that we are over the interview waiting but i cant imagine being denied i am going through depression from the day i left him after we got married, its been a long 3yrs.and a long 2yrs of immigration waiting, i cant imagine waiting another1,2yrs, i prefer to die than living this longdistance nightmare. I cant wait to built our family life togheter. I dont know whats gonna happen to me... :-XSweden said:
Just keep hoping for now - don't get depressed before you have the decision!Shiny88 said:
and it seems like you are already building your family life, since you'll be having a baby soon! For sure being away is not the same, but it seems like you are still managing to keep things going, having a baby soon, and hopefully the father will be able to arrive soon... You've done most of the process, and every day passing is one day closer to you being with your husband - look at how much you have walked already from the day you applied, and measure the accomplishment... focus one day at a time, looking at another year or something like this will not help you - focus on getting to tomorrow, or to next week, or to january when your baby will be there... and hopefully the rest will order itself around it.
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I hope i can stay strong and stop thinking its the end, i havent even receive any decision yet am freaking and thinking its the end of the world. I will you everyone osted of the outcome. :-[Sweden said:Just keep hoping for now - don't get depressed before you have the decision!
Good luck,
Sweden
Thanks Amiketyamikety said:Keep your head up! We will pray for you
i am so glad that i found this forum people are so helping,encouraging and nice, which is rare to find in real world.
. And yah.. Don't be depressed, it's not good for your baby.
LOL no way. i think they ask those funny question cuz they dont know what to ask and their job is to ask question. they asked few odd question to my hubby one of them was. If i eat out or cook home, my husband said both he said what is the name of the restaurent/fastfood she goes to eat. LMAO its like wth?? based on this answer how they can even consider if the relationshi is genuine? what if he would just invent a name? why would i say the name of pizza shop i go to its not like he knows where it is or he gonna have his later on there. I dont know based on what qualification these officer get hired but i would say that my 9yrs old sister can ask smarter question. Anw thanks for the advice&wishshells said:Seems that immigration officers everywhere like to ask funny questions... One time I had a question thrown at me by a US officer.. "People your age (back then, at 30 years old) already have a job, cars and family.. Why are you going for studies now?" I had a blank look for a while, and just said, "because I want to."
Good luck to you, Shiny. It must be stressful trying to handle the pregnancy and your husband's immigration at the same time. Hopefully he will be here in time for your delivery.
Hahaha.. That's so funnyShiny88 said:LOL no way. i think they ask those funny question cuz they dont know what to ask and their job is to ask question. they asked few odd question to my hubby one of them was. If i eat out or cook home, my husband said both he said what is the name of the restaurent/fastfood she goes to eat. LMAO its like wth?? based on this answer how they can even consider if the relationshi is genuine? what if he would just invent a name? why would i say the name of pizza shop i go to its not like he knows where it is or he gonna have his later on there. I dont know based on what qualification these officer get hired but i would say that my 9yrs old sister can ask smarter question. Anw thanks for the advice&wish
At least if they ask him what you like to eat or cook at home, what you have cooked for him before, or even what kind of job you do, there might be some way of finding out if its a genuine relationship.. Name of restaurant you go to is too weird. I wonder if they have a standard set of "silly questions" they always use for every other person, or they just make it up randomly for everyone.
LMAO u r funny, ya i know about job ,where i live and how many siblings..stuff like that they can easily find out but i mean to name of stores i go to have dinner?lol i think the only brand we have in canada that is available in my country is kfc and western union other than that i dont think theres any food chain or store chain that we have backhome like in canada.shells said:
You will be fine!
shells said:Even though it's approaching Christmas, but I'm more of a Buddhist.. I'm now on my way to a big Buddhist temple in Richmond BC as I speak, to pray to the gods for my parents and myself (in particularly my application).
I'll pray for you and your hubby too.
thank you, hopefully god gonna listen to your prayers.
