I am a Canadian citizen and was married in August 2009 with a guy from India which was an arranged marriage through a marriage website. Boy was working in Europe that time and was on study Visa. His parents was in India and marriage was performed in India. After my marriage i came back to Canada and he went to Europe. I along with my brother filed for his immigration papers from Canada which were through from here in January 2010. In the mean time his Europe visa was expired while he still remained there without visa as he sent his passport to Canadian embassy in India since it was required by them which he mailed from Europe. Ultimately he got his Canadian immigration papers at his India address which were later mailed to him in Europe by his brother from India and he returned to India in April or May 2011 and later moved to Canada in July 2010.
His behavior changed once he moved here. He was disrespectful to me , my parents although he stayed with my parents for about 6 months and didn't spent anything during his stay there. Ultimately on persistent pressure from my parents to move at our own place we bought a house in Ontario in which i contributed around $25,000 and he contributed $10.000. He was working full time jobs in Europe and got the same job in their Canada office. I had no idea how he spent his money nor he ever showed me his financial statements and he knew all about my finances.After we moved to our house we started to pay mortgage by contributing equal amount in joint account . The real problem started since we moved, he always abuse me and abuse my parents for something or the other. He calls me whore and humiliate me in front of my friends. it is impossible to stay with him and I find it very disturbing to take extreme step to leave him which we decided this Sunday and he said he will leave the house with whatever stuff he brought and he didn't want the house which I can get transferred in my name and pay off the subsequent mortgage. I came to my parents and told them about this decision which my brother asked if its my final decision which i agreed. He drafter the separation agreement based on what we discussed and I sent him through email.
Once I was home that evening he changed and said he want everything half and put the house on sale. I have no problem with that but he has not contributed anything other than 10.000 and most of the household stuff is from my parents. He even wanted money he sent from Europe which he contributed towards the home purchased.
What to do with this situation. If he ask for 50% do I have the right for 50% what he earned after the marriage and i should ask him to get all the bank statements from Europe showing his income and expenses during the period he was there before he moved to Canada.
Please advise
I heard and read a lot about it that people marry Canadian boy/girls to obtain Canadian Immigration, but its happening with me.
His behavior changed once he moved here. He was disrespectful to me , my parents although he stayed with my parents for about 6 months and didn't spent anything during his stay there. Ultimately on persistent pressure from my parents to move at our own place we bought a house in Ontario in which i contributed around $25,000 and he contributed $10.000. He was working full time jobs in Europe and got the same job in their Canada office. I had no idea how he spent his money nor he ever showed me his financial statements and he knew all about my finances.After we moved to our house we started to pay mortgage by contributing equal amount in joint account . The real problem started since we moved, he always abuse me and abuse my parents for something or the other. He calls me whore and humiliate me in front of my friends. it is impossible to stay with him and I find it very disturbing to take extreme step to leave him which we decided this Sunday and he said he will leave the house with whatever stuff he brought and he didn't want the house which I can get transferred in my name and pay off the subsequent mortgage. I came to my parents and told them about this decision which my brother asked if its my final decision which i agreed. He drafter the separation agreement based on what we discussed and I sent him through email.
Once I was home that evening he changed and said he want everything half and put the house on sale. I have no problem with that but he has not contributed anything other than 10.000 and most of the household stuff is from my parents. He even wanted money he sent from Europe which he contributed towards the home purchased.
What to do with this situation. If he ask for 50% do I have the right for 50% what he earned after the marriage and i should ask him to get all the bank statements from Europe showing his income and expenses during the period he was there before he moved to Canada.
Please advise
I heard and read a lot about it that people marry Canadian boy/girls to obtain Canadian Immigration, but its happening with me.
