+1 for eileenf.eileenf said:No dude. "It's an expression!" is not a blank check. Own up to the words. "Coming to this country on a floating door" is not a metaphor for a person's inability to learn new skills. It's about mocking desperate people coming here in desperate ways. I know it's "jokey" xenophobia, but that doesn't make it noble.
In any case, a lot of people on this thread are "piling on" (this is an expression from American Football) the OP and the mother. The OP asked whether there was a way to bypass the language requirement. Beyond aging out or having a mental or psychological impairment, it's clear that there is not. We all agree that it's much better to know the language of the place you're living. We all know that the Citizenship Act prioritizes this. We all know that with varying amounts of time and effort many people can gain significant proficiencies in foreign languages even at older ages.
Great. But I'm gonna say that the OP knows a lot more about their mother than any of us. And I'm gonna say that the mother knows a lot more about the challenges of living her life without the necessary language skills than we do. We don't have to explain or exact those difficulties for her. She knows. And let's not kid ourselves that it's harder on us than it is on her.
Anglo-Montrealer here. (Et oui, je parle français, mais je sais bien que ce n'est pas facile)
Recently I have noticed that people come here just to mock others. Reminds me of a character from Simpsons who always say ah-ah, making fun of everyone.
This is a forum to help people and should be respected so people can ask questions without the fear of being ridiculed. Sadly, recently that hasn't been the case. It's good to know that there are people on this forum who's life are perfect and have not had issues. Bravo. Not only are their life's perfect, they look down on people who have had a hard life. They fun of those who come here seeking advice, expecting suggestions. Instead they get fingers pointed at them with a ah-ah.
Good for you all. I hope you never experience hardship in your life, and if you do and seek help, I hope someone helps you, instead of ridiculing you
Thanks eileenf for trying to use the forum the way it was meant to, to help and not to judge
Ray