We see lots of people being denied because they have they don’t have ties to their home country like working in their home country. If you apply for a TRVs for your whole family it will be another warning sign. Asylum is actually very difficult to get. Lots of people get denied. You haven’t lived in your home country for 8 years and are comfortable returning yearly for a one month vacation. This shows that your life is not at risk. If for some crazy reason you get a TRV and apply for asylum you are looking at 2-5 years of being separated. You are an economic immigrant so should be denied. When you are denied it will be difficult to travel, work, study abroad in many countries for an extremely long time. It will also affect your children’s chances of getting visas/permits approved. Look at the various economic immigration programs.