I think my application will be around 12 pounds. My proofs are as follows:
80 - 11x17 photocopied sheets of relationship evidence, (love letters from each other, photos of us when we were young, envelopes used to send gifts, birthday cards, portraits my wife drew of me, receipts of all hotel stays, wedding cards sent by my parents and family, all tickets used to enter temples, boats, pagodas, flight tickets for all our trips, receipts for all wedding related stuff such as decorations, wedding sweets, restaurant, receipts for our two honeymoons, air plane tickets for both honeymoons, etc etc etc)
8 - support letters, from 2 of my wife's friends from France, 1 from her cousin from France, 1 from her oldest sister, 1 from her best friend, 1 from another friend, 2 from both her parents
100 - screenshots of Skype webcam, took 1 screenshot per week even though we talk everyday, and I saved a screenshot everyday
200 - pages of chat history Yahoo! and Viber, took only 1-2 pages of chats per day we talked using IM.
15 - pages of Facebook wall posts, one post shows our friends comments when we said we were in a relationship, met for first time, engaged, wedding day, honeymoon trip, Vietnam trip, also showed 1 page of mine and her "About" page to show that we changed our status to Married since Dec 30, 2012, and we added each other's family members as our in-laws. We only used 15 pages, but each page shows all the comments friends/family wrote for each big moment in our life, and I thought it was redundant to show every single thing we posted, so I only showed the important events such as married, in relationship, etc.
400 - 4x6 photos, I separated the pics so that they're in groups, held together by simple binder clips (worked nicely). The groups are, Vietnam visit #1, Vietnam trip 2013, Vietnam Visit #2, Honeymoon #1, Honeymoon #2, Trip with my family #1, Trip with my family #2, wedding day, wedding studio days. I put them in chronological order, wrote dates on the back (took me forever) and who was in the pics. Hardest part was figuring out the dates as my pics dont have timestamps.
Notes:
-The biggest # of photos was "wedding day", around 50, because it's the most important day to the VO (I feel), and I want to make sure it's detailed as possible. I know VOs will look to make sure I have done all the things that are expected in a traditional Vietnamese wedding, so I took pics of every situation that they would look for, such as exchanging of gifts, praying at altar of grandparents, serving tea to family members, street procession, etc. I also made sure the pics show my ENTIRE family as well as her ENTIRE family in attendance, as I know VO's dont like when family members are absent at weddings.
-The biggest pain in the butt was putting dates on 400 pics, but it was made easier when I just go on my computer and hover my mouse over the pic to see when it was "created"
-On the 80 - 11x17 sheets, I wrote with red pen (because it's easier to see), on all the sheets indicating what they were (receipts for hotel, wedding, etc)
-We also will send an original of BOTH our wedding invitations, one is written in Vietnamese, other in English (hand-drawn by my wife, with Superman/Spiderman theme, just for fun).
-We have 3 wedding studio albums, wedding DVD, wedding guestbook, lucky money deposit box, and a scrapbook made, but I can't scan them, so I decide to take a photo of each of them, and printed them out, and wrote on the back what they were.
-Printed copies of my life insurance listing her as beneficiary for $500K, receipts of money I sent to her for support
I know you guys might feel this is overkill, but bear in mind, my wife is Vietnamese, our VO is Singapore, the processing times went from 15 to 26 months in just 5 years, we absolutely DO NOT want an interview, and want to have a strong application to prevent it. As you know, Vietnam is a country known for many marriage fraud cases, and if she was an American, I wouldn't have to print nearly close to 10% of what I'm printing now. I even told my wife not to apply for a TRV because if it's refused, we have to indicate that on one of the forms, which could delay our case, and if you look, you will see a refusal of TRV is considered a red flag question, among other questions such as have you ever been in jail, refugee, etc. So I told my wife not to even try for a TRV, but instead I will visit her instead.
I feel we have a pretty strong case, we are only 3 years age difference, we waited a year after proposal to get married, we have same education, we can speak same language, we both communicate everyday, wife has never attempted to come to Canada and has no family there, my entire family (parents, sister, brothers, grandma, stepdad's sister, 2 family friends) came all the way from Canada to be at the wedding, also my wife's entire family and relatives attended. We have MANY pics of my family and her family having dinner together, and many more pics of my wife taking trips with me and my parents.
It took me a long time to create all this evidence, but I only get to apply for my wife once, and I only want to do it once, and do it really really good the first time.
They don't need to see 20 pics of the 2 of you in the same place from different angles! For the wedding there will be some extra pics, concentrated on you with the various family/friends that attended.
I sent them just one pic a day, or per occasion we are together. ex) If on one day, we go out for breakfast, I take a pic. On that same day, we go watch a movie, I take a pic. On that same day, I go to eat dinner with her family, I take a pic. If on the next day, we simply just go to the mall and that's it, I just take one pic of that whole day. But when we go on our across-Vietnam trip or on honeymoons, I take multiple pics to show that we really were in those locations. I take pics in front of famous landmarks or places that are a true telltale sign that we really were at those locations.
My advise is don't include 400 photos if you have a strong case to begin with.
That's easy to say if you're applying from a visa-exempt country, we are talking about Vietnam here, which by the way, was added to a list of countries requiring biometric data from visitors, and those countries include Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, Libya, Pakistan, Somalia, Sudan, and Syria. If you're part of this very exclusive club, I'm sure I know what the Canadian government feels about people from these countries, so it's my job to convince the government to allow my wife who is a citizen of this fine group of countries, to allow her into the country. And I hope I'm able to do so by giving the strongest possible PR application I can give.