Black-Berry said:
if you dont mind me asking what exactly did you give as proof of your relationship??.
Looking back, I can see that I did not provide enough proof of our relationship in the application - at least for a mixed race couple applying through Accra, because I have seen cases on this forum that had less evidence than we did and were successful. However, the appeal is 'de novo', so you can add more evidence then.
We met in 2001 in Asia where we were both working. We dated from 2001 to 2005, but did not live together. We then went back to our own countries. We continued our relationship by phone. We got married in 2007.
For proof we had:
*evidence of our civil and traditional weddings and reception
*photos from my first trip to Nigeria on
*evidence of my four trips taken to visit him; total time together was trip 1: 2 weeks; trip 2: one month; trip 3: two and a half months; trip 4: two and a half months.
*evidence of two trips we took together in West Africa
*phone bills
*a few emails
*4 affidavits and 1 email attesting that we have a genuine relationship
*emails from a friend in Nigeria telling me how much my husband misses me
*documents showing what we planned for our life together in Canada (house mortgage, business plan)
*evidence of gifts given each other, and money transfers
*evidence I have been trying to get pregnant and that we have looked into adoption
*we have very little evidence we were dating from 2001 to 2005 - no photos, no receipts, no phone bills; so we got two affidavits from friends who knew us then stating we were in a relationship
i know this is a wild thought but maybe you can try having a baby??. i know its prob hard at this point but maybe if you have a babyb it may help??.
I would love to have a child. It's not working. I told the visa officer in Ghana that we were thinking of adopting a child, and she asked me questions about it, but she
did not put this in the CAIPS notes.
Can your husband get a canadian visa at this point?. because if he can maybe he can come into canada and apply inland??.. .
Impossible. He's tried twice to come visit me, and was refused both times.