Mapleson said:
I temper all my expectations with statistics. I know that application times will take a Poisson distribution, and that my own time is independent of everyone elses. I've had lots of issues in the past with anxiety, so I feel I'm well equipped to deal with the worry rationally. We'll see how well that self-analysis pans out by the fall.
Newgirl and I both have our hubbies here- so when we comment it is because we are both well aware of the emotional rollercoaster waiting for immigration can be!
I wish at the time I DIDNT stress half as hard as i did ... but i did because that is how i deal.
I spoke to people on this forum almost everyday and at times we needed to step away from the updates and the complaining and the heartache because it only made it worse for us! you start to look at everyone else's progress and wonder WHAT ABOUT ME? It is normal behaviour.
Good luck to you and hopefully you don't suffer half as hard as we did. I wish I had an anti anxiety tactic back 5 months ago! I could have used it! haha
xox