Our friend's wife had her interview on January 5th. She was told she would have a second interview at some point, no one knows when yet. She was given an extension to get more proof of relationship to them, it was mailed to her by our friend but had not reached her before the interview, due to the mail at Christmas time he thinks. She also has an extension for getting her child's father to sign that the child can immigrate with their mother to Canada, the first paper only says "visit". Our friend wonders if anyone knows how long of an extension is given in these cases as he feels he will have to go down to Cuba to get the letter written and signed since he does not trust that his wife will do things in a timely manner, his words not mine, I guess she tends to think that timelines are not as ridged as they really are or something.
The wife said her interview on the 5th of Jan. was not done by a Canadian but by a Cuban, is that really the case would a Cuban be doing the interview for someone immigrating out of Cuba or was it just a Canadian who spoke very very good Spanish? Our friend is pretty upset because I guess a comment was made that he must not really love his wife because he had not been down there again for a visit for a year.( he went once for three weeks) he had been there 3 times each of the last two years, before they were able to marry, long story but they had wanted to marry about a year and a half before they could, he did not have a birth certificate so had to prove his place of birth a different way, he was not born in Canada, and the first time he went there for the wedding he did not take all the needed documents, thinking he did not need them, so they were not able to marry that time. Anyway this comment by the interviewer has really upset our friend because no he has not been able to go see her more than once in the last year but he has been putting out lots of money to his wife to help her fix her family's home. major upgrades like from no bathrooms to now working on a second bathroom for the house as well as fixing walls and adding a bedroom. He says she wants the house to be good and comfortable for her parents , sister and sister's family when she leaves to come to Canada so of course he wants to help to make life easier for them but it does mean he can't afford to go down there very often, a lot because when he does go it ends up that he pays for a vacation for them all to go to Veradero instead of him staying in their little village. Anyway his feelings are hurting that an interviewer would infer that he might not love her due to his not visiting very often. Anyway way we can reassure him other than what we have said like, don't worry about it they don't know you like she does or we do, that maybe they said that to see what her reaction would be not because they really think that....