What an "irony of life"!!!
Here is somebody whose wife and kids are refusing to go for the Medicals, which will eventually land them the Visa on their Passport and on the other hand, are My kids and Wife who ask me everyday when they get back from school and work about any letter from the CIC London.
Reminds me of an African (Nigerian) proverb/adage:
"Eni lori oni fila, Eni ni fila o lori" literally translated, means in English:
"He who has a hat has no head and he who has a head has no hat".
Be blessed and Good Luck.