Mate you are having a laugh right now, but getting refused once will put you guys in a spiral of hurt. Make sure you are serious about providing real genuine proof, sexting is all good but think of this process as the biggest job interview of your life.[/QUOTE]
I'm sure everyone's here on this forum is serious about providing all the proofs that might help to assure the visa officer that their relationship was genuine. If somebody wasn't taking the whole thing seriously, then I guess they wouldn't have even bothered writing on this forum asking questions and advise from more experienced members and would have just sent whatever they got hoping for the best. That's true that the instructions for some of the forms are not very clear as well as there's no information about communication proofs showing which kind of it would satisfy visa officer the best that a couple really had legit genuine relationship. There is lots of controversial information all over the Internet and that's what this forum is for, to help people to determine the best way to do thing basing on their experiences. Accordingly to the forums they really might be asking sexual questions on the interviews and it's one of their ways to determine if the relationship was real. I found quite a few articles about visa officers being trained to determine so called "red flags" and one of them was not kissing on the lips on the wedding photos as well as lack of the physical contact on the other photos and one of the things that they look for while looking at all the pictures was "are they touching each other or are trying not to touch" as well as if family members were not smiling on the wedding photos and looked all serious it might be considered a red flag as well. From what I understood they are trying to determine how physically comfortable the couple was around each other. It's hard to say how truthful this information is because nobody really knows what would be that one proof that would instantly make the visa officer think..."yep...this couple definitely shows real love and real relationship" and would help them to make up their mind about the whole application. It's very important to be serious when sending all the documentation but at the same time...I can't see it being a good idea making the whole communication between the couple sound to serious or boring or not enthusiastic enough either. I think it's just as risky as sending X-rated texts. There has to be a right balance and couple still has to show some passion between them and it doesn't mean having to send all the X-rated texts.