Quote from: Jaxon911 on December 22, 2014, 09:15:08 am
One thing I have learned so far is that I must stop expecting that I will get time to relax. Every time I think like "once I achieve target ABC" I'll just relax and enjoy. However, by time I achieve that target, I would have been in the run to chase another one! I have accepted that I am not going to be able to relax, ever! Because that's the only way to survive in this world!
The UK (and I think pretty much whole of western world) have Red Queen effect, which means: "in this place it takes all the running you can do, to STAY IN THE SAME place"
Full text about red queen effect goes as below:
“Well, in our country,” said Alice, still panting a little, “you'd generally get to somewhere else — if you run very fast for a long time, as we've been doing.” “A slow sort of country!” said the Queen. “Now, here, you see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place. If you want to go somewhere else, you must run at least twice as fast as that!”
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