Dude, I feel your pain....once you've been where there is a system that works, and you come back to naija you tend to wonder, what is going on here...even if your earning good dough on a monthly basis, there is a ton of stress to deal with like the ones you mentioned below...before you know, you've got facial white hair, due to a deterioration in the standard of living, while your friends or relatives still living abroad, who may not be making as much money as you, but enjoying the way of living, will be having no white hair.
There services chase you, here, you chase the service....gateman has he's own stress, electrician has his own, NEPA have their own, water the same, mortgage is like arm robery on white paper...How can a employed average graduate earning a salary of like =N=7M, purchase a house/flat of =N=20 plus or more, settle down with a good spouse, buy a brand new car and enjoy what he is supposed to enjoy. If he is jaiye guy, no chance to enjoy unless there something by the side coming in...
Its crazy, suffering and smiling as the late Fela once said...