I'm victim of fraud marriage, I got married in 2017 (arranged marriage), girl was from India and was literate. while i was in Canada, matrimonial ad was given into newspaper by my family, girl's family made contact with my family, later they all setup their meeting to discuss the matter further. Family background investigations were done. Her family contacted me where I started talking to the girl and her family over the phone. In three months I went back-home for marriage, date was fixed, got married, no dowry etc. was involved. everyone was happy. Life was going smooth until her mother started asking me to register the marriage with local Indian authorities and go back to Canada so that I should start her spousal sponsorship application. I discussed their this behaviour to my family and according to them it was normal and i was just overthinking as we all know people are always suspicious in terms of getting married to a NRI and every side has bit concerns when we make new relatives. Also, we can't sometime read people's mind that what else is going on in back of their heads. After 3-4 months of my marriage i returned back to Canada, continued my job and filed her spousal sponsorship application. While the application was in process and waiting for approval, her family started asking me never ending questions related to her application and started giving me examples of other people whether known to them or they were just making up at that time, that why it's taking that long to hear from immigration whereas other applicants getting approvals quickly...they were bit smart but somehow annoying me by comparing her case with other's. Everytime I gave them a reasonable answer to their queries they were n't getting it as they were listening and had trust on other's more. So after a month or two, sponsorship got approved and I file the PR application of my so called wife. Now again waiting game started but again they started to disturb me again and again by asking the same questions about the file (Why, Why not, How come, Others blah blah) and I always explain them in the same manner. I told this to my family as well that seems like my wife side has trust issues. Even they talked to them as well but still they were concerned about her case. From the time I met them, before and after marriage, until she got PR; I was the star of their eyes and she and her family never made me to realize about their intentions. It was my illusion which I realized later. Since there was wait time for processing the file, her family became impatient and forced me and my family to apply her visitor's visa while waiting for PR case. As it was risky step to apply for visitor's visa while PR case was still in progress, I told it's worth to wait for PR than TRV but she and her family didn't understand this and they also had a huge interference of their relatives too. At that time I was thinking that how these people shows no concerns about me but were more concerned about my so called fraud wife's case. After all this, I applied her TRV which got refused and they made a lot hue and cry over it. My family was fully aware of their behaviour and told me to remain quiet and let it go, as relationship was still new and they still might have trust issues just like any other person. At the end of 2019, she got all her landing papers and arrived to Canada. Everyone was happy including me. COVID time started. People lost jobs, world stopped, restrictions imposed. Luckily my job got least affected of all this. Even though I was working during COVID times, I took time out to show her around, long drives, taught her so much, about Canadian system, banks, different jobs here, how to apply, how to prepare for interviews etc etc. Our personal life was going smooth too, first 6 months after her arrival they went smooth and i was confident she can integrate into the canadian system but I was wrong. I set her up with new bank account and we had joint bank account too. I put my money into the joint account. As I was working, I told her that in order to keep herself busy she should find a suitable job (work from home during covid) for her. Even part-time job would work for her. All the resources were available to her, but she wasn't interested at all in doing any efforts. She had few interviews for easy jobs but didn't want to do any of them. As it was my responsibility to support her, my work paid me well, so I was able to support her without any issues even though she didn't work. Another 6 months pass out, she didn't do any job at all but instead she was keeping herself busy all times on the phone (surely, long conversations with her family, aunts, cousins etc etc.) who I was sure never gave her any good advices. I realized that in-front of me she was different but on my back she was different (I realized this from her face expressions when all sudden I came back from my work and entered into my place). There was lots going on in my absence which I could only feel but was totally unaware of that. One time she asked me if there was still 2 year relationship rule, I was bit shocked and asked why she was asking, she said one of her friend asked her (Even though that rule was ended back in 2017). She always showed me her love so as I did, she kept promising me that she would never leave me as she wasn't like other girls. We always had good laughs and conversations. All sudden she started arguing me over stupid things which lead to involve my family and her family too. So It was the time when it was one month over when She completed her 2 years with me in Canada as PR while being in relationship, I was at my work and the time I returned back, she was disappeared. I felt shaky and this gave me goose-bumps, so many things were going on in my mind, At one point my brain stopped working as I couldn't figure out what to do. I was thinking if any robbery happened in my absence as my personal stuff was all over the floor, there was mess all over the place, I immediately tried to contact her but she didn't answer, I contacted her family back-home and other relatives in Canada but nobody answered. I finally called to my family and made them aware and they all were shocked. Even they tried to contact her family but nobody picked up. I randomly checked my bank account and shocked to see that my money was gone, i called to bank and they told me that money was taken out by my fraud wife. I lost 15K. After this i realized that she ran away from my place. Then I went back to the memories and started linking up the conversations we had and her family's actual motive behind her PR case that why they were eager for it. I told to my family that we got defrauded by her and her family. This all was well organized and coordinated. She knew my routine, all banking information, her family and she waited for me to leave for work, called someone their known over to my place who helped her with all her stuff. their this planning was going from long time as for sure this wasn't just happened overnight. My family suggested me to inform the police, so I called RCMP about her missing. Later police told me that they contacted her and she wants to get divorce from me and she didn't accuse me for anything like threats, domestic violence etc..I felt bit easy after knowing this as I was aware that people can put innocents in trouble by giving false statements to the Police and they closed the case. Next day I checked my bags, my personal gold jewellery was missing, she went through my stuff and documents took the marriage certificate with her, but she couldn't find her PR card anywhere as she totally forgot that I was making some photo copies of it as i need to renew my passport but card was left on the glass bed of the printer. Later when my family went personally to talk to her's family, where her family accepted that they did all this and also said that I didn't give her PR card as she didn't find it anywhere, WTF!!! I reported to the RCMP about my stolen valuable stuff but they said it's family matter and has to be resolved through family lawyer and they can't do anything. They nicely and very smartly planned all this and used me a pawn to easily enter to Canada by the means of this marriage. One side they cheated on me and my family, on the other side they are harassing me and my family by filing false complaint in India (i.e. asking dowry, mental stress to her etc etc..)... They are talking non-sense and distracting others from the fact that they actually did fraud with us but instead of this spreading lies about me and my family to prove themselves and their fraud wife innocent. All evidences and statements were given by my family to the police against their false and fabricated claims. At this time, I'm thinking about my options that how to proceed with all this. I also called to the Border Watch Line and they told me to send everything in writing etc. where as IRCC don't deal with such cases as I contacted with one of the IRCC agent and she directed me back to the Border watch Line. This brought me a lot of emotional stress and affecting my day to day routine and activities. Any advice would be appreciable. Thanks.
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