Dear Nkusi and AEO,
Your words are comforting, and will help me prepare for the months to come. I currently cannot work in the US, because of the reluctance of companies and universities to sponsor my H1-B. I am on the H4 dependant visa, which does not allow me to do anything! I have finished my master's degree in Canada, and was doing P.hD, when my lab lost funding. I married my fiancé and moved to Boston 1 year ago. Had lots of job offers, but none of them worked because of my status! More than anything, I miss Montreal, my home for many years and my friends. My husband also loves Canada. I am itching to work for a while and then continue my P.hD in Canada. Now I know that being frustrated is not going to help.
Meanwhile, I will do as you guys suggested: I will find something to do that I love, which doesn't require a visa
Take up advanced french classes to improve my intermediate french,
And enjoy life in general
and keep checking this forum with all you wonderful people
I am really grateful.
Thank you guys.