FEBRUARY 2011 applicants here!!

[Habibti]

JUST CHECKED E-CAS.......... IT SAYS DECISION MADE. MY GOD! MY HEART IS RACING FAST!

 

[GetUsHome]

I have my fingers crossed for you.

 

[Habibti]

I AM GOING TO FAINT!!!! WHEN WILL HE KNOW?

 

[CharlieD10]

Fingers crossed for you!!! He should check the mail and his email (not sure if Rabat uses that much).

 

[Habibti]

Now I am really really worried.... it has been 4 days since the update on our e-cas (Decision made) and still nothing! No phone call, no email, no letter.

A man in Morocco who had his interview on the same day as my husband was called this morning. He was asked to redo his medicals before they could issue the visa. His e-cas does not show "Decision made". It still shows "In Process".

Tomorrow will it be the lucky day (11-11-2011) ?

 

[CharlieD10]

Still hoping for the best for you.

 

[cleo]

...landed. ;D

Good luck to all the other February applicants.

 

[KMAEP]

Now I am really really worried.... it has been 4 days since the update on our e-cas (Decision made) and still nothing! No phone call, no email, no letter.

A man in Morocco who had his interview on the same day as my husband was called this morning. He was asked to redo his medicals before they could issue the visa. His e-cas does not show "Decision made". It still shows "In Process".

Tomorrow will it be the lucky day (11-11-2011) ?

@ habibti

thats one of the advantage of having an interview after you will already know if they approved your application or not even though your ecas dont update as DM...

dont worry your visa will be delivered anytime... ;D ;D

 

[Habibti]

Visa denied. I feel broken. I have to say goodbye forever to my husband.

 

[CharlieD10]

OMG. Oh no. No. Now is not the time to give up. You can't say goodbye to your husband just because the visa is denied. First, there is an appeal process. And not only do you have your relationship proofs, you have the monumental screw-up of Rabat requesting that you pay the RPRF BEFORE they interview your husband and deny him a visa! That has got to count for something, Habibti!

I know this is a heartbreaking moment. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. Grieve a little, or a lot, depending on what you feel it calls for. But don't grieve for too long. There IS a second fighting chance, and you have to use it! At least think about it, before you decide to give up.

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how this moment feels, other than when they denied my TRV I can't relate to what you must be feeling. All I can say is, I'm sorry, and I hope you fight this.

 

[sahm2boys]

Visa denied. I feel broken. I have to say goodbye forever to my husband.

Did they say why he was denied?

 

[CharlieD10]

Section 4 reasons - bad faith marriage.

 

[suki]

Visa denied. I feel broken. I have to say goodbye forever to my husband.

Omg....I'm so sorry, do not give up!! :'(

 

[Habibti]

OMG. Oh no. No. Now is not the time to give up. You can't say goodbye to your husband just because the visa is denied. First, there is an appeal process. And not only do you have your relationship proofs, you have the monumental screw-up of Rabat requesting that you pay the RPRF BEFORE they interview your husband and deny him a visa! That has got to count for something, Habibti!

I know this is a heartbreaking moment. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. Grieve a little, or a lot, depending on what you feel it calls for. But don't grieve for too long. There IS a second fighting chance, and you have to use it! At least think about it, before you decide to give up.

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how this moment feels, other than when they denied my TRV I can't relate to what you must be feeling. All I can say is, I'm sorry, and I hope you fight this.

Really your message touches me, moves me in a way you cannot imagine. I will be 49 in June! Time is flying. I don't want my husband to mess his life. He will be 30 this summer. He could find a younger wife and starts all over. By the time we appeal and probably win I will be 52. I am aging. There is a possibility I have breast cancer. I will know more in December. I feel my life is over and it is not worth it fighting. Believe me... my life has been hard and full of tests. This one I cannot take it. My husband deserves a second chance for a new life. I feel my time is over.

 

[CharlieD10]

Right now, I'm pretty sure you can't see much beyond the crushing sense of disappointment and heartbreak. I think that you should give yourself some time to first deal with that, and then consider where you go from here.

Many things in life are a possibility, but that doesn't mean you should let go of hope. I know when you've had many tests in life, you wonder to yourself what the heck God is thinking when he tosses another one your way. You want to demand, hey, can't you see I've got enough to be dealing with now?? Been there, done that.

I guess all I'm saying is, Yogi Berra said it ain't over till the fat lady sings. Don't make unilateral decisions regarding your marriage. Your husband married you, when he probably had the chance/choice to marry others. Don't denigrate that choice now, what happens to the two of you has to be a mutual decision.