Divorce after landing

[hamgha]

Dear Scylla

I meant that my marriage would take place in 6 months time and by the bill c6 would become a law. According to which a person needs to be present in Canada for 3 years out of 5. If person has spent some time as a temporary resident say on student or work permit then each day would be counted as a half day for up to maximum of 1 year. In my case I have spent 5 years in Canada 2 years on study permit and 1 year on PGWP

I was reading about that bill but it depends on when you stayed in canada compared to the application. This post explains it well.
http://www.canadavisa.com/canada-im...esidency-requirements-for-citizenship.459641/

 

[figaro2]

Hello

Hello everyone

There is a girl that I love. She is my fiancé. Now the thing is girl did not want to marry that early but being from an arrange marriage culture her parents forced her to marry.

After our engagement we decided to talk over phone/whatsapp and though I felt that she also started loving me but she still does not wanna marry that early and she tried to break up with me so that she can support her family but her family convince her not too. So she came back to me and I excepted her with open arms.

Now the thing scares me is that after 6 months I will apply for EE and based on current trend I will highly likely get an ita. What if she lands in Canada and thn ask for divorce? Can she get right away or being my dependent she needs to wait. I m sure if there is a waiting period of 2 years our relationship will become strong

In my country it is not easy for a girl to get a divorce neither would I ever divorce her. But I m scared that she can ask for it (in Canada where laws usually favor women) out of her desire to support her family because she may think that as I wife she has responsibilities towards her husband and she can't fulfill her responsibilities towards family so it's better to divorce me.

Hii
I think that you are afraid of a divorce before even having this marriage. Just keep in minde that a relation should be built on respect and honesty. That s it. It doesn t matter after that if it struggles or not. Once you go with that rule you will see that things are going to be clear. If you are made for each other you gonna discover it. So why not? Give it a try guys. Get married and go to canada. If things are good you will keep together for.ever. but if it won t work you can get divorced or separated. Don t begin your relation with a possessiv way .. my wife... my husband.. duty.. responsability... all.these are social things that won t make you happy together. But think you are two persons who are looking for a soulmate a same path and experience. i donno. I think thay when you premeditate divorce it d happen ( if you are afraid of a monster you gonna dream of it)

 

[HusainS]

Well I m not restricting any ones freedom nor am I forcing her to marry. It's her parents! I out of my love am willing to accept her. It was just a concern that what if she may be using me as her entry to Canada? I am raising funds for her so that she can pursue her masters in Canada. So what if after her admission she initiates divorce proceedings. I have given her freedom to choose whatever she wants but still there is that fear factor in me. Tbh I have heard countless cases like that where one spouse utilized other for his/her gain and unfortunately most of them involve woman utilizing man and I don't want to be a victim of such incidents.

I have lived in Canada for 5 years but unfortunately could not convert my temporary stay into a permenant one and I feel based on my profile now is the best chance. So that's why I created this topic.

Anyways guys thanks a lot for your responses. it clears lot of mud

Don’t want to be a negative or insensitive person. But, if that happens you might even have to pay alimony. Just thinking practically.