Out of ill-founded enthusiasm, I went for my pre-medical yesterday which I believe will blow back pretty badly. This is supposed to be my future as a tech entrepreneur in Vancouver - I am so disappointed and really looking for you all's help.
I was noted as having issues in 4 areas (all which could have been avoided if I was careful) and added to that the doctor - who didn't seem to me much aware of gender/sexuality issues - thought I was hiding things.
1. I am male that has an intersex condition. I was medically labelled as 'Gender Dysphoria' - same diagnosis as of Transgender people and I do take female hormones. However I consider myself as 'Gender Fluid Man' and plan to live as a feminine man. The doctor didn't understand that and wrote it as TS (derogatory)/Gender Identity Disorder and possibly also felt I was hiding this 'psychological disorder'. They could consider that I want sex change etc., which I don't plan to ever get and put me into 'excess burden' category)
2. I have mild psoriasis - again fully treatable with 2-3 weeks of medication - but he called it a big issue.
3. He said my dental health isn't good that I need to floss/visit a dentist for preventive checks.
4. High BP (120-97)- this was 'white coat syndrome' as the one they took 5 mins later was normal. But again, he was not happy about point 1, so made this a big issue as well.
Now, what are the options in front of me?
A. Is there any chance I will pass medical given 1-4? Where and how should I check my status?
B. Is there a way to fix this by may be raising this issue to the authorities so that they are more aware?
C. As 2,3, and 4 are all fixable, can I do another medical - say 4-5 months down the line - after ITA etc.,?
I know this is complicated, but please let me know if you have answers to A, B, or C to keep the discussion focused.
Thanks in Advance!
I was noted as having issues in 4 areas (all which could have been avoided if I was careful) and added to that the doctor - who didn't seem to me much aware of gender/sexuality issues - thought I was hiding things.
1. I am male that has an intersex condition. I was medically labelled as 'Gender Dysphoria' - same diagnosis as of Transgender people and I do take female hormones. However I consider myself as 'Gender Fluid Man' and plan to live as a feminine man. The doctor didn't understand that and wrote it as TS (derogatory)/Gender Identity Disorder and possibly also felt I was hiding this 'psychological disorder'. They could consider that I want sex change etc., which I don't plan to ever get and put me into 'excess burden' category)
2. I have mild psoriasis - again fully treatable with 2-3 weeks of medication - but he called it a big issue.
3. He said my dental health isn't good that I need to floss/visit a dentist for preventive checks.
4. High BP (120-97)- this was 'white coat syndrome' as the one they took 5 mins later was normal. But again, he was not happy about point 1, so made this a big issue as well.
Now, what are the options in front of me?
A. Is there any chance I will pass medical given 1-4? Where and how should I check my status?
B. Is there a way to fix this by may be raising this issue to the authorities so that they are more aware?
C. As 2,3, and 4 are all fixable, can I do another medical - say 4-5 months down the line - after ITA etc.,?
I know this is complicated, but please let me know if you have answers to A, B, or C to keep the discussion focused.
Thanks in Advance!