to THINK of marriage before divorce is granted is not illegal at all. You are just contemplating marriage. Now, if you go DO marry before your divorce is granted, then it is illegal.taj p said:THE VO TOLD US THAT IT IS ILLEGAL TO THINK OF MARRAIGE WHILE THE DIVORCE IS STILL NOT HAPPENED , BUT I WAS SEPERATED FOR 4 YEARS BEFORE I MET MY SPOUSE AND GOT MARRIED AFTER DIVORCE WITH MY EX , IS IT ILLEGAL???