Thank you so much dallasgal8050 and maroraza for your kind words. In case my application is refused, we will go for appeal naturally and even if the appeal is refused we will still fight somehow. I didnt marry her to go to Canada. I married her because I love her and cant think or imagine to live with someone else but her till the end of my life. If she would have been living in the rain forest or an african desert, I would still go to live with her there if thats the best option for us. Its not the best option for her to live with me in Pakistan, she got two young kids as well to look after. The security issues in Pakistan are well known to the world. How can I ask her to risk her's and kids' life by living with me here in such a dangerous and violent place with indiscriminate bombings and killings. What can I do if I met the woman of my life from Canada? If she would be alone, she would have been living with me by now without any problem, even though i would have been worried about her safety most of the time. But with kids, its not possible. Out of four of us, isnt it better for just one to relocate rather than asking the rest of the three to relocate to problematic place compared to where they are living now? its been three days since they have made a decision on my application and I dont know what is the decision. I pray to GOD that HE may never let anyone go through this agonizing uncertainity of his/her faith, like me.