Dear Luli986
You have exactly the same situation as me. They keep telling me my case is in queue for the last 4 months. I don't think anybody knows what waiting in queue means !! It seems that this queue is something virtual and it doesn't move forward it just goes backward.
Do not redo the medical unless they ask you to do so. In some cases they will extend the medical automatically up to 3 months , this is what Damascus office told me,but my lawyer said its a new trend since November 2010 and it usually do not include people from middle Asia, so I'm not so positive about that. They said when we asked you to renew your medical, your papers won't go through the normal processing. In this case medical will be stamped as urgent so wait until they request for a new medical.
About the questionnaire it seems they didn't ask you for that, its ok nothing to worry. The questionnaire is just waste of time because we already answer all those questions in the forms.Maybe they ask you in future but it in not a big deal.
My file is in Damascus for 9 months and 8 days, when I simply ask them you said 9 months she laughed and said you are among those 20% that takes up to 16 months. I did really get mad, I wish I have applied through other country. Damascus office is so rude and irresponsible. Don't they understand the importance of family!!They are ruining everything for us. We can't do anything except waiting and praying. Hopefully they will ask for your husband's passport very soon.