My remark concerned several pages of discussion, not just you or the other poster's remarks. Whether immigrating to Canada or to the US, all of us are giving up something to be with the person we love because THEY are our home. I have my own concerns and fears about moving to Canada just as my Canadian-born wife had her own concerns and fears when I brought her to the US orginally. Namely, leaving the only home we've ever known. The wait and irritations with CIC don't makes things any easier.
But I do agree, just complaining about the place you're moving to is a little stupid...uh, not counting that massive Montreal snowstorm I went through during my Chrismas visit. DAMN!
Never did so much sub-zero shoveling in my life. Los Angeles was looking reeeaall good that week!