So this is a long story to explain my situation: I am legally separated and going through a divorce that may take years. It has already been 2 and have no date when divorce court will even start. It is with an individual who lives internationally and our belongings and properties are also international. and I have full custody of my 4 young children from that union. The children’s passports are held by the court and cannot travel right now without his approval (he maintains his parental authority). Thus, I cannot simply move to my partners county (Costa Rica) and become common law because of my very big responsibilities of my children. My partner applied to visit us but was refused for lacking of travel, etc by Canada (last year). We are together as a couple for 2 years. I have been able to visit many times for short visits (4-6) days by having babysitters for my 4 kids.
My partner and I talk everyday, share bank accounts and he has full power of attorney for my landrover that is his country. He is well educated, an architect and knows and loves my 4 children (from the year I lived with my ex in Costa Rica. (He built our home)) We have thousands of pics together. Family and later as a couple on trips and all my visits. I made collages with all many pics and explained each one and sent a screen shot of WhatsApp and fb messenger conversations from each month since February 2016. I sent all my court orders about the custody and my lawyer wrote a letter clearly confirming my situation. We had many of our friends and family sign a paper confirming our commited and public relationship. And of course all other supporting documents.
This is a looong history and a bit complicated but simple in the end. I can’t move to his country with my kids, that are my full responsibility (because their father gallavants around the world) and my partner cannot simply come here.