Thank you for your reply. I also have two older boys (who I listed on the form as instructed) who are under 22 which qualifies them as dependents. Since my divorce, they have moved and I don't have contact info for them. I did list their names and DOB but I also listed them in the notarized letter I wrote which states that I want to surrender my rights to ever sponsor any of my children now or in the future.
I am hoping by including all the children in the letter ages 21 and under and having my letter notarized by an atty that this will suffice. I also had a friend (neutral party) in Texas write a lengthy letter which I attached with my notarized letter. She spelled out the story of my divorce and how my older children have moved and I no longer have contact with them. (their choice not mine)
Again, thank you for your comments. It helps so much. (see below for copy of the letter I had notarized by an atty)
To Whom It May Concern:
I am applying as a principal applicant for common law sponsorship permanent residency to Canada.
On my application, I listed my children as instructed. I understand Canadian Immigration requires all of my children to get medical exams and police checks. However, since the breakdown of my marriage and divorce to *************** I have not had contact with my older children and rarely have contact with my younger two all due to their disapproval of the divorce.
I do not have any current contact information for my older children and the two younger children (ages 17 and 15 ) are in the custody of their father. He will not allow them to have a medical exam or police certificate. He is in charge of all major decisions for them per the custody arrangement.
I have attached a portion of the divorce settlement agreement which states that the children are not allowed to leave the state of ********* USA during my visitation. This was agreed upon by both of us so he would be more comfortable since I moved to a foreign country.
With me not having current contact information for my older children and the younger ones being in the custody of their father, I am requesting to waive my right to ever sponser them in the future. I understand this will never be an option.
Please accept this notarized letter as my official agreement to surrender my right to sponsor now, andthe future the following persons:
*************** DOB *******
*************** DOB ***********
*************** DOB **********
***************DOB ***********
*************** DOB **********
I humbly ask this request be granted.
Sincerely,
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