So what do you suggest ? Him coming to visit once a year or to sponsor as. Him visiting once a year is ok to,I mean cheaper then 3 ticket plus school. I guess either way the resaults will probably no good? I thought Canada was big on Uniting children with both parents. My son is now starting to suffer from depression I’ve notice and teacher from school as well. It’s sad that government would do this to family and keep them apart. Yes it was my fault but, in my defense the guy that was handling my paper did not explain to me. Actually he was a fraud. Who had taken over 6 digits from us. He pretend to me another person with the same name. Basically we’ve been through a lot. We are still trying to become a family again. Any hope is hope
The government isn't keeping you apart. You had a sponsorship application that you canceled - that was your choice.
TRVs are meant to be used for people who are coming to Canada as tourists and have no plans on remaining in Canada long term. That's why the chances of refusal are likely quite high. IRCC will know your husband has plans on remaining in Canada long term.
Provided you are still in a real relationship with your husband and you aren't just sponsoring him because of your children, you should submit another sponsorship application as soon as you can. If you are no longer in a relationship, then he will have to qualify and apply for PR on his own through an economic immigration stream like Express Entry.