zouzou said:
thanks for all of your advices... im unsure now about whether i want to/should marry him....
would it be better for him just to go back to his own country?
ya he should go back to his country and you should really think about all this again. As worldisyours said, you are still young and i dont think thats what you want for your life, you should make the best out of it, you might regret all this. Give this time, see how things go once hes back to his country and dont overdo/rush this. Have a close look at it without the pink glasses of love, dont get used by him if he does. We all here can have a more realistic view to it than you, even though we dont know you both, we just tell you to be carefull, after all he seems not to be a guy that likes to do things the right way, can only hope he learns his lesson and truely loves you.
Wish you good luck in making the right choises!