canadian born citizen here. Basically got used for financial gain and set up. Im so stupid to believe him I normally wouldnt consider this however after 6 years he suddenly left one day sent a text saying he was buying a home for his family he brought over while i paid all our expenses 6 years. He is laughing about this now telling me I should have known and being cold which makes it much more real to me. He was TFW he applied on his own as express entry through AINP nomination program
-2013 early we got together
-2013 dec we had a child
-2013 dec he officially moved in
-early 2016 he tried getting PR officer found messages of me on his phone. misrepresentation case hired lawyer got a reinterview granted with CBSA
- Unsure what he said he asked me not to come to interview. he got PR
- Dec 2016 his legal wife and daughter came somehow on family sponsorship (we were common law at this time)
- May 2019 he suddenly leaves coincidently close to citizenship with all the money he was saving while i paid everything.
we lived together Dec 2013 to May 2019. He never lived with his sponsors here in Canada. They came 2016.
A little background from day 1 he told me him and his legal wife were separated but cant get a divorce in their country. All throughout our relationship. There were alot of red flags however he reassured me. His family (brothers mother ect... ) considered us a family and reassured me too so I didnt question it to much.
I dont know much about immigration but I never understood how the legal wife came here while having a living relationship to someone else.
Im trying to figure out specifically what he may have lied about in this process since he hid alot from me (i know red flag stupid me).
- i know for certain he lied about where he was living the whole time. He always made excuses that he had to put he was living with his brother.
- I know he lied to CBSA officer about our relationship. How else can she come. I suspect he told them since we had a son he was just visitting (hes trying to claim that to me now a big insult) He kept telling me until they were able to get legal divorce here he couldnt claim common law with me and that our relationship wasnt valid to the government.
Im not sure what they ask on forms to know what else he wasnt truthful about.
If he wasnt laughing about all this I wouldnt be so upset. But we had a child he barely sees now and its affected both of us so badly emotionally and financially. The only reason I believed this process was his family.... Im pretty sure they had no clue. He always had excuses to anything I questioned...
I have no money for a lawyer because of all this I have to do it myself. Do I have any rights? is it true what he says our common law means nothing because he wasnt legally divorced? even though he wasnt living together with them here? he is laughing saying there is nothing I can do... because of his son here with me... I dont find this stuff funny but he does... our son was affected....
-2013 early we got together
-2013 dec we had a child
-2013 dec he officially moved in
-early 2016 he tried getting PR officer found messages of me on his phone. misrepresentation case hired lawyer got a reinterview granted with CBSA
- Unsure what he said he asked me not to come to interview. he got PR
- Dec 2016 his legal wife and daughter came somehow on family sponsorship (we were common law at this time)
- May 2019 he suddenly leaves coincidently close to citizenship with all the money he was saving while i paid everything.
we lived together Dec 2013 to May 2019. He never lived with his sponsors here in Canada. They came 2016.
A little background from day 1 he told me him and his legal wife were separated but cant get a divorce in their country. All throughout our relationship. There were alot of red flags however he reassured me. His family (brothers mother ect... ) considered us a family and reassured me too so I didnt question it to much.
I dont know much about immigration but I never understood how the legal wife came here while having a living relationship to someone else.
Im trying to figure out specifically what he may have lied about in this process since he hid alot from me (i know red flag stupid me).
- i know for certain he lied about where he was living the whole time. He always made excuses that he had to put he was living with his brother.
- I know he lied to CBSA officer about our relationship. How else can she come. I suspect he told them since we had a son he was just visitting (hes trying to claim that to me now a big insult) He kept telling me until they were able to get legal divorce here he couldnt claim common law with me and that our relationship wasnt valid to the government.
Im not sure what they ask on forms to know what else he wasnt truthful about.
If he wasnt laughing about all this I wouldnt be so upset. But we had a child he barely sees now and its affected both of us so badly emotionally and financially. The only reason I believed this process was his family.... Im pretty sure they had no clue. He always had excuses to anything I questioned...
I have no money for a lawyer because of all this I have to do it myself. Do I have any rights? is it true what he says our common law means nothing because he wasnt legally divorced? even though he wasnt living together with them here? he is laughing saying there is nothing I can do... because of his son here with me... I dont find this stuff funny but he does... our son was affected....
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