i appreciate all the advise and support from all of you thanks a million. but the fact is immigration never knew about all the things that were going on in my marriage, i only open up to you guy for help to let you know the situation, the lies my husband told is and will be his to bear his sins is on him ,i am not only thinking abou my child that born in canada ,i love all my kids A who is 22,brad who is 14, mac who is 8 and baby ty who is 22 months .there all was on my sponsership and was also approve to be sponsered ,and they all came down for visits .so i wanted to point that fact out to honeybee 2, and thanks for reposting about your insensitivity , and yes i got refer letters from my job at kfc i bring with me to barbados,thanks for sharing that fact to me ,you see i was coming to canada from 1994 to my dad he sponsered us but he wanted to do it hisself without a lawyer to advise him that he was not making enought to sponser 2 daughters at once , he is stubborn, so we got refuse and we came home but just visited often cause we were still young. so honeybee you made me shed tears when you asked if am desperate to live in canada , no i m not ,the fact was my daughter was going to school there and my son born there is what made indure what ever i was going through.and i did not marry for sponsership papers, when my father try to unfair me he took me in and i told him i was going home to my country ,he was the one who pleaded with me not to go ,stay .he told me to show my father i am strong and i can make it without him .not knowing he would treat me worst than my father did.so dont judge me thinking you know all the facts . i love my kids i did not post my story for pity i post it to get help if there was any one that can help or to get your guys advise of what to do . so thank you all for your answers.
Call of a desperate mother - Any help would be really appreciated!!
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thanks leon but i dont need a thing from that man , he close out my accounts from me getting my son ccb payments and my tax credits .so he can keep everything . i will put this as a learning experience , every man that goes to church every sunday without missing a sunday is not necessary a man of GOD and he got his sins to answer for , so this woman that thinkshe has it all will know her faith soon .so leave him to GOD.but i thankyou for all your suggestions i know you are only looking out for me i appreciate it so much