dimasok said:
My girlfriend currently lives in Israel and wants to come to Canada to live and study with me. We are not yet ready to marry (that will come in the future as we both agreed) but we want to rent an apartment, study and work together. Is it possible to do that without marrying? All I could find was this: http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/sponsor/index.asp but all sponsorship classes there have to do with either family or relatives! What about girlfriend/future wife?
I'd greatly appreciate any help since she has to serve in the army (yes, girls serve in the army in Israel!) beginning February and she doesn't have much time left before her window closes completely for 2 years!
If she comes here and lives with me for a maximum of 6 months and then we marry, would we have to fill sponsorship papers as well? Is it even possible?
Dimasok, you and your girlfriend have failed to calculate an
important complication in your plan - (I am currently in Israel and am aware of her military obligation).
If your girlfriend leaves Israel before February and does not complete her compulsary military obligation to Israel - she will be classified as a draft dodger. The only way a woman can "get out of" military service is
1. If she is married or
2. If she has a baby/children or has had a baby (women who have had abortions are included as they are are considered "fertile" and considered as a "risk" to become pregnant during military service - these aren't my words - I researched this for a paper I made on Women in the Israeli army for the University of Tel Aviv.)
Furthermore, let us presume that your girlfriend decides to leave Israel anyways before being drafted to the army, then if your girlfriends returns to Israel for a short visit or permanently (lets say she wants to visit her family 6 months later, 1 year later, 2 years later etc, it doesn't matter the amount of time that has passed), she will be arrested and put in detention and put before the military tribunal to determine her punishement (I have many friends who this has happened to) - good case scenerio is that she has to immedietly enlist and serve in the army, bad case scenerio is that she has to go to army jail for a period and then serve in the army.
Furthermore, Israelis (spouse or common-law class) must submit a Military Exemption or Military Service Completion certificate when applying for Canadian immigration as indicated in the sponsor application kit. What will your girlfriend submit in this case if she chooses to leave Israel?
Another option is that she can delay serving in the army if she is studying abroad until she completes her studies (a very complicated process and she has to submit her acceptance to a canadian institution to the military as well as her student visa that was granted by the canadian government). She has to pray that the military accepts her claim to defer her military obligation and will grant her a release to study in Canada. However after completing her studies she will have to come back to Israel and serve in the army for 2 years (or be married to be exempt).
Therefore, the only options that I see are:
1. You guys get married (I wouldn't rush into marriage though) as being common-law won't exempt her from mililtary service and you will have to live together for 1 year before you can apply under that status) or
2. Wait until she completes her military service before she moves to Canada (it is only 2 years after all) and she can always serve in the "National Service" unit and work in a hospital meaning she will be home every evening if you want to visit her in Israel and have a long distance relationship.
Its just not a good idea to be a draft dodger... she must sort this out before she leaves Israel.
Hope it works out.
KSTelAviv