chipits said:Hahaha! Looks like yours was quite the quick process then!!
bagelbagel81 said:Dawndarkharp - you should check your E-Cas as mine like rachiy's has changed to IN PROCESS (4th Dec).
I have a feeling all us Sydney folk in July will be hearing good news soon!
We lived in Australia for four years, I became a permanent resident of Australia just before we'd planned on leaving (by coincidence, not by planning it that way, we actually thought I would leave before the permanent residency came through). So we've been through the entire process in Australia, it took two and a half years after our wedding.Kiwi12 said:Do you mind me asking what triggered your decision to come to Canada rather than sponsoring your Canadian spouse to Australia?
chipits said:We lived in Australia for four years, I became a permanent resident of Australia just before we'd planned on leaving (by coincidence, not by planning it that way, we actually thought I would leave before the permanent residency came through). So we've been through the entire process in Australia, it took two and a half years after our wedding.
Honestly, there wasn't much left for us in Australia. I didn't like it there. It was too hot for me, I was sick and tired of hearing racist things being said every time we met someone new, it was getting too expensive, and to be honest, I missed Canada.
My husband was happy to come along. He misses Australia sometimes, but even though his family is still over there he does like it here. Who knows, maybe we'll go back one day, but that day will be really far into the future.
Kiwi12 said:That is very interesting. My husband came here in January to stay with me for an extended period of time because I was having shoulder surgery. I had visited him in Australia last Christmas where we became engaged. We got married here in Canada in February and decided to do an inland application here. Although it really hasn't been that long it feels like an eternity of waiting. My husband misses Australia very much and I hear about on a daily basis although much of it is because he is not able to work yet and had a very social surrounding which he hasn't been able to build yet. He is feeling a little uncomfortable with me having to support him financially. I found Australia to be so beautiful and although Canada is a beautiful country I understand my husband's point of view. Thanks for sharing.
bagelbagel81 said:That's sad that you would hear racist things, I am sorry to hear.
There is definitely people here that present a poor attitude - it really sends the perception of the whole country 50 years backwards. I believe to an extent that Australia is so cut off from everything that there is a tendency to be pretty insular in some people's perspectives, which is sad. Having said that there are also some awesome people here.
I do, however, feel like I belong in Canada more than Australia. (I am the Australian, my fiance is Canadian) Strangely, there is more a sense of family and belonging for me over in Canada - All my family are spread out all over the country in Australia, and although we love each other, we aren't all that close. It will always be a good place to come back and visit - but Canada feels "right" for me!
My fiance loves Australia- probably more than I do! He can't get enough of the humour, language, people, everything! He just received his permanent residency in the last couple of months after living here for four years, but we both feel that we have more of a support network in Canada for bringing up a family. Plus you can't really go past Tim Hortons![]()
I'm sorry to hear about your surgery and your husband's homesickness. I imagine it must be very tough for him not to be able to work, absolutely. It must be tough, but if you got married in February hopefully you'll be nearing the end of the process soon!Kiwi12 said:That is very interesting. My husband came here in January to stay with me for an extended period of time because I was having shoulder surgery. I had visited him in Australia last Christmas where we became engaged. We got married here in Canada in February and decided to do an inland application here. Although it really hasn't been that long it feels like an eternity of waiting. My husband misses Australia very much and I hear about on a daily basis although much of it is because he is not able to work yet and had a very social surrounding which he hasn't been able to build yet. He is feeling a little uncomfortable with me having to support him financially. I found Australia to be so beautiful and although Canada is a beautiful country I understand my husband's point of view. Thanks for sharing.