I felt the same, I went on a trip around Asia for a couple of months in 2008 and told everyone half jokingly that I was going to meet my husband overseas. I came back to NZ and only lasted 6 months before I packed my bags again and got a working holiday here. Most of my friends moved to Australia in the mean time and I thought it was stupid - if you are going to move then you may as well move far away. lol. now kinda wishing that I was a $200 4 hour flight from home not a $2,000 20 hour flight..... but I guess I did meet my (future maybe) husband overseas after all.dawndarkharp said:My spouse had lived in New Zealand all his life and from a very young age he knew there was something else out there for him. It's an island - can't really go anywhere. The prospect of a bigger country to explore appeals to him