Dear Buddy,
Thank you for your fruitful advice.This advice serves to purposes-makes me conscious about my prospective future abroad and ADDS INSULTS TO MY INJURY.
I did never think of leaving my teaching profession since it is my passion and gives me immense pleasure.But, how long a person can play hide and seek with realty?Mental pleasure in youth and realty of enduring life and hope don't go together.I unleash my mind as your writing sounds much realistic to me. To earn my livelihood teaching profession is a blessing here in my mother land as there are ample opportunities to earn a lot by private tuition.But, is it s healthy life?How long a person can carry on with this (sub)profession. So, brother, I changed my decision to take the taste of a life abroad and I know bitter sweet experience awaits all of us.EXACTLY, NOT ONLY YOU, I MEAN THE TEACHERS, ALMOST EVERY WHITE COLLAR FOREIGH TRAINED PROFESSIONALS WILL HAVE TO FACE TROUBLE IN THE BEGINING. ONLY BLUE COLLAR JOBS ARE AVAILABLE, GOOD FOR THEM, FOR EXAMPLE- PLUMBERS, ELECTRICIANS ETC.Consolation is there,my son would be equipped with world class credential(education). YES, YOU ARE RIGHT.The earning I have at present can be surpassed easily by doing even survival jobs there if my EGO does not claim more.Bhai, I am a peace loving human being and want to lead a life of peace and happiness where my environment will not belittle me and I will not be preoccupied with the thought of security and corruption. YES, IT'S NEVER ENDING.CANADA IS RIGHT PLACE FOR YOU AND FOR ME AS WELL. IT IS AN AMAZING COUNTRY. May be some will define my immigration as an act of an escapist or coward who is fleeing from his homeland to avoid realty, but you know I may have to encounter harsh realty. DON'T BOTHER THEM, EVERY LAND BELONGS TO GOD, AND WE CAN STAY ANYWHERE WE WANT. GOD'S BLESSINGS ARE THERE FOR THOSE WHO MIGRATE FOR THE SAKE OF BETTER FUTURE. THOSE WHO CRITICISE, IT REMINDS ME A STORY OF 'GRAPES ARE SOUR....BECAUSE THEY CAN'T REACH THEM. Your wife may be one of the blessed ones to propel her career in the right direction. She might avail a job in her own field after brushing her education with the paste of Canada. It is true she might get a teaching job being a female but not possible (usually) by males. She might easily excel in her earning more than you as Canada needs more Female qualified ones.(as I'm told by existing ones in Toronto). STILL SHE WILL TRY SOMETHING ELSE, NOT TEACHING FOR SURE. WE HAVE MADE UP OUR MIND,WE DON'T WANT TO RUN BEHIND AN ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE DREAM AND THAT TOO AT VERY HIGH PRICE. IN OUR LIFE,WE HAVE TO DO MARGINAL COST/BENEFIT ANALYSIS BEFORE MAKING ANY CRUCIAL DECISIONSIf any one enters your society from abroad and wants to occupy the demanding jobs,of course, you will not feel positive, so is the case with canadians,they don't want anybody to.
I will sacrifice my teaching profession MANY IMMIIGRANTS DO and try my best to change the track of my career if get opportunity to upgrade my skill since teaching job in Toronto for an Asian immigrant is almost an impossibility. Bhai, keep me updated about your status and write your country of origin so that at least we can share ideas. I AM YOUR NEGHBOR-INDIAN, CURRENTLY LIVING IN SOUTH AMERICA.
BHAI, YOU ARE ALWAYS WELCOME.
Thank you
mmilon