I understand, but i'm just telling what other people in your situation have faced in the same situation. I think it's very difficult for an immigration officer to accept that, and they have said as much when other people have applied under the same circumstances.
I also know that there are people who have put their spouse as non-accompanying, and then written in their letter of explanation that they did so because putting them as accompanying would result in them not having enough points to apply. There were many people who did this and IRCC accepted that reasoning. However, there could be a crackdown on that at any time and you would need to be prepared for that.
But it could be your best bet.