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Application for Rwandan boyfriend to visit

ctln18

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Mar 3, 2014
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Hello and thanks in advance for your help. It is so overwhelming when looking at how to apply for a non-Westerner, so I'm open to any advice you can offer!

I am a Canadian woman trying to help my Rwandan boyfriend apply for a temporary resident visa. I want him to visit for 3-6 months, particularly to attend my graduation in June. He has never travelled outside of East Africa, but his older brother is a citizen of Belgium, his older sister has travelled to Europe and the United States before, and his father travels to Europe frequently for his work. I don't know that this will make any difference for my boyfriend, but I thought I would include as much detail as possible.

He has never applied to travel to Canada before. We can provide proof of our relationship since May of 2013 and I have travelled to Rwanda twice during that period. We are fairly serious about one another and we have talked a bit about getting married in the next couple of years, but we are not at that point in our relationship yet. I just don't want to do anything at this time that might jeopardize his chances of coming to Canada and eventually getting Canadian citizenship down the road.

My boyfriend is employed, but he works in journalism which does not pay well in Rwanda, and often does not pay regularly either. Obviously, we are trying to go about this honestly and we would never plan to have him stay longer than he would be allowed with a TRV, but I worry that the government might perceive him - a single, 27-year-old man, with a low-paying job and a university degree from East Africa - to be high risk for staying in Canada against the law.

In an ideal world, I want him to visit Canada so he can get a sense of what it is like here, and to introduce him to my family and friends before we proceed any further with our relationship.

Do you think it is worth a try to lay down the $100 for the TRV application? And do you have any advice that might help him to be approved for a visit, and that wouldn't cause us problems in the future if we were to apply for him to live here as my spouse?

Thank you very much!
 

ctln18

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Mar 3, 2014
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I should add that I am a university student. I'm currently looking for a job and I would sponsor my boyfriend, but I won't be making a lot. My parents said they will invite him, but having not met him yet, they are not comfortable stating they will support him financially while he is here. He will be staying with them though.
 

johnnycage

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Here's what I would do:
  • First never mention about you. Since you are only his girlfriend, it's not needed per se, and really from my experience trying to visit a girlfriend/boyfriend is almost an automatic refusal.
  • Since officially he will not go to Canada to visit you, you need to find a valid reason, and one that will make him go back to his country after the visit. I would go for something around his job, such as a conference or some event about journalism. Group tour is also an option.
  • Don't ask for 3-6 monts. It's too long and will get refused. Go for 3 weeks tops. He can then ask for an extension (6 months) when in Canada.
  • Provide a complete itinerary (I know, it's time consuming even if we all know that's not gonna happen this way)
  • Low money could very well be a problem. Most of the time there's unfortunately nothing you can do about it, but if someone can loan him some money that'd be nice. It needs to have been in the account for 4-6 months when he applies though :( Spread the deposits through this period.
  • Try to find strong ties to his home country. Land, property, family, charity work, whatever. Include affidavits from key people who can confirm he will come back after his trip.
  • I repeat, do not mention about you or your family whatsoever.
 

ctln18

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Mar 3, 2014
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Thanks, johnnycage. That was very helful.

I'm wondering though, can we not invite him as a friend? I had considered having my parents invite him as a friend, because his parents let me stay with them when I spent time in Rwanda, so we thought of portraying it as a way to return the favour.

Or are you saying we should just find a business reason for him to apply? I'm sure we could find a conference for him to attend around that time which might work. Do you have any idea how much money he should have in his account? Even a rough estimate would be great.