@RN:
was your hubby notified by mail or by phone?
my hubby and I met last fall, i got preggers a few months after. we literally spent every day together from fall 2009 to january 2010 in nigeria. i came back to canada in january to check on baby and prepare for the wedding. and again, we spent every day together from march 2010 to june 2010. we got married in april and i'll be going back to see him once the baby is born this fall. will stay there with him until the new year.
we are from the same state though he was born and raised in my town and is fluent in my language. we're 1 1/2 years apart. it's the first marriage and baby for us both. we did a traditional wedding (about 200 guests) and a white wedding (600 guests). my mom, brother, sister-in-law and best friend all came from canada for the wedding (i have copies of their flight itineraries and stamped passport pages). his entire family was there, including his brother who had to get permission to attend the wedding because he's a priest in training and had to leave the convent to attend the wedding. we also have LOTS of wedding pics, some pics of us spending time together, text msgs, logs of calls from last fall 'til now, facebook msgs, emails
i hope what you said about quality (and not quantity) holds true b/c as you can see, we haven't been together that long but the relationship is most definately genuine.