I had never spoken out in this or any other forum, but suddenly (maybe out of dismay and frustration) I decided to do so. Our anniversary is approaching and there is still no visa news. If the visa isn't ready in the next three weeks, we most likely can't be together for our first anniversary; I'm getting more and more disappointed day by day.
I can't really understand on what basis the VOs work. I couldn't think of even a complicated model that fits their process. It's not even causal, there is no queuing concept in this whole process. No matter how promptly you apply or how you rush to apply, you can quite possibly end up getting your visa too late. I feel irritated and insulted by what I think is nothing but "incompetence".
Why should this background check take such a long time? And more importantly, why shouldn't they answer our simplest, shortest, and most logical questions about our application (they also seemingly ignored/missed our second request for the GCMS notes!)? I remember in the past, they seemed to care more. They didn't respond in detail, but even their telegraphic response was a big relief. I really don't understand, are they getting overloaded, less organized, more paranoid (or maybe more arrogant)? I'm gonna talk to our MP and ask them for clarification if we don't hear anything from them by June. Someone must be responsive, I'm feeling violated...