soblue3 said:Hi Mike and thanks for your kind words. and congrats on your wife's approval.
I am back in canada now..i did not move there yet...but i had a wonderful time there with him and his family and took many pictures of us and people who came to visit me and many pictures of the times when we went to visit his family out of town and his friends. really i am a bit shocked at the reasons she gave for the refusal. to say he always uses google translate to communicate with me...all the time i was there he did not have to use any translation and everyday that we talk on skype he also does not use it...he just told her he used it in the beginning..but he also said that she had a very strong accent and it seemed that english was not her first language...maybe she misunderstood him...also to say he is planning to study here and just work and not to continue our life as a couple and i am sure that was never his goal...ah i can understand the age difference and the fact that it is not a tunisian tradition to marry a woman who is older than a man and from another country...but there are more and more people now who do it.
there was a member who named tunisabride and she also had the same problem and she won her full hearing if you follow her posts, you can get some ideas and if she read the forum still, she will definitely will help you. collect enough proofs and try to visit again your hubby before the hearing date