I did not find them any better than Islamabad but again I was only trying to remind them about my situation. They replied me once out of 3 emails after 15 days. My MP was able to get a reply in 3 days.arif.ali said:Hello,hhassa I have one question does CPC Ottawa reply e mail inquiries or they are same like Islamabad donot response most of the time?? If they response to email how may days or weeks they will take ??or if Mp send request , then how many weeks CPC ottawa will take to response To MP office??? if you know any thing let me know plz Mocha grasses
Hi for me it took 1 & half month to get blue book and after receiving blue book one week later I recieved a letter for ADR hearing date dat is next year in march. I m so nervous bcos I was expecting full hearing as dis z my 2nd marriage nd I hv three kids and my hubby z 12 years younger Dan me. But I hv alt of proofs to show dat our relationship z genuine . Anyone can tell me what are they gonna ask me in d ADR .kceCanuck said:Took 6months for blue book to arrive and another 2months for the call to book ADR. I was told by two consultants not to call them as you could find yourself at the bottom of the list.
No matter what happens, always be strong. There are many heartless humans. What can we do, all we can do is fight back. One day your husband will be here. Believe in God.MrsTrejo said:Hello all my friends. I am sorry that I have disappeared from the forum fore some time. I have been very busy, consumed, and still in shock.
Unfortunately my ADR was not successful. I knew the moment the Minister Counsel walked in. She was immediately in a bad mood. It's unfortunate that they can play by emotions instead of facts. She asked me no questions about the genuineness of my marriage.
We were denied based on: my husband and I deciding to marry after knowing each other (they say) for 15 days (very untrue). He "does not speak English/share a common language" which is a lie because we only communicate in English and I speak fluent Spanish as my family is from Chile, that he was not working (could not work after marrying a foreigner), and that the VO did not think we have anything in common.
She did not even touch the evidences that I sent to her or even looked at them during my ADR. She did not ask me questions about my husband, our relationship, etc, other than "when did you meet, how long were you together before you proposed" and that was the only questions she asked. Her first questions were about my friend who married and sponsored a man from Cuba. My friend and her husband introduced my husband and I. He was a guest at the wedding but was not a friend, he was their driver and an acquaintance of theirs who took them all over Cuba and helped set up the wedding. She and he are no longer together. She knew this, and asked me this which was the very first question. In her mind my friends husband and my husband are friends and that it was a plan to get my husband to Canada so he could leave me. My husband has not seen or heard from that man in over 2 years. After she asked me this, the ADR was basically over. She said she had no other questions for me. I told her that the questions about my friend was not in relation to my relationship of 4 years (my friend married her husband the first year they met and not long after they were lucky and he came to Canada. He left shortly after). She did not blink an eye. Like I said, she knew the moment she walked in she was going to refuse me. I had that intuition when I woke up that morning.
Now I must wait for the full hearing. The DRO told me it will take one year. Sometime in the end of next summer. The DRO told me that if my husband and I can be as genuine in the full hearing as I was today, I should not have a problem winning with or without a lawyer. However I am/was still devastated after all the work, research and things I have done. That none of it even was considered. The documents I prepared (he said and so did she) were something better than any lawyer has prepared and sent to them. My husband and I are so over with this. We are going to continue the process but in the next few months I plan to take the steps to move to Cuba.
Thank you Arujapan for sending me a personal message. It helps to be reminded that I am not alone. That there are other people who sadly are going through the same process to be with those they love.
Best wishes to you all.
I would not recommend that you might ending up losing your money. But its up to you.Siva said:Hi hhassa,
Do you know what will happen if my husband's does a full medical without the embassy requesting it. Because it's been more then 15 moths since he did his last medical. Would this be ok. Thanks
I am sorry to hear that. Where did you have your hearing? Well you have to wait for full hearing date now. But tell me details of your case if you don't mind. Thanksmanisonu said:Hi hhassa
Today was my ADR unfortunately it is no successful .They said I wanna talk your husband
nd will be full hearing .nothing complicated in my case I have one year daughter
but they because of Guinness what should I do .I am so worried please
let me know thanks
really sorry to hear this..its so unfair after all this time and all the preparations you did. those people can be so unfair i hope you guys dont give up. do you consider getting a lawyer for the full hearing?MrsTrejo said:Hello all my friends. I am sorry that I have disappeared from the forum fore some time. I have been very busy, consumed, and still in shock.
Unfortunately my ADR was not successful. I knew the moment the Minister Counsel walked in. She was immediately in a bad mood. It's unfortunate that they can play by emotions instead of facts. She asked me no questions about the genuineness of my marriage.
We were denied based on: my husband and I deciding to marry after knowing each other (they say) for 15 days (very untrue). He "does not speak English/share a common language" which is a lie because we only communicate in English and I speak fluent Spanish as my family is from Chile, that he was not working (could not work after marrying a foreigner), and that the VO did not think we have anything in common.
She did not even touch the evidences that I sent to her or even looked at them during my ADR. She did not ask me questions about my husband, our relationship, etc, other than "when did you meet, how long were you together before you proposed" and that was the only questions she asked. Her first questions were about my friend who married and sponsored a man from Cuba. My friend and her husband introduced my husband and I. He was a guest at the wedding but was not a friend, he was their driver and an acquaintance of theirs who took them all over Cuba and helped set up the wedding. She and he are no longer together. She knew this, and asked me this which was the very first question. In her mind my friends husband and my husband are friends and that it was a plan to get my husband to Canada so he could leave me. My husband has not seen or heard from that man in over 2 years. After she asked me this, the ADR was basically over. She said she had no other questions for me. I told her that the questions about my friend was not in relation to my relationship of 4 years (my friend married her husband the first year they met and not long after they were lucky and he came to Canada. He left shortly after). She did not blink an eye. Like I said, she knew the moment she walked in she was going to refuse me. I had that intuition when I woke up that morning.
Now I must wait for the full hearing. The DRO told me it will take one year. Sometime in the end of next summer. The DRO told me that if my husband and I can be as genuine in the full hearing as I was today, I should not have a problem winning with or without a lawyer. However I am/was still devastated after all the work, research and things I have done. That none of it even was considered. The documents I prepared (he said and so did she) were something better than any lawyer has prepared and sent to them. My husband and I are so over with this. We are going to continue the process but in the next few months I plan to take the steps to move to Cuba.
Thank you Arujapan for sending me a personal message. It helps to be reminded that I am not alone. That there are other people who sadly are going through the same process to be with those they love.
Best wishes to you all.
Hi for me it took 1 & half month to get blue book and after receiving blue book one week later I recieved a letter for ADR hearing date dat is next year in march. I m so nervous bcos I was expecting full hearing as dis z my 2nd marriage nd I hv three kids and my hubby z 12 years younger Dan me. But I hv alt of proofs to show dat our relationship z genuine . Anyone can tell me what are they gonna ask me in d ADR .saniali said:hey guys.. i have a question.. its alrdy 4 mnths i dint hear from IAD... usually hw much tym will it take?
Sorry I do not understand 2nd part of your post... 2 reasons? what is your background?manisonu said:Hi hhassa
my ADR was in calgary .Nothing wrong in my case both hv first marriage.
Both hv same language .bcuz a education difference and why got late marriage
my husband was 34 at 2013 when got marriage and I was 32 Just two reasons
Can I 're apply now
Thanks