Hi gsize, the following two links might be helpful to you. Its been a long road for us too more than 3.5 years since we appliedm married for more than 4 years. Its really frustrating but there is nothing we can do except to be patient. Hopefully you will be united soon.
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/resources/manuals/bulletins/2011/ob305.asp
http://www.bellissimolawgroup.com/2012/03/processing-of-successful-appeal-cases.html
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/resources/manuals/bulletins/2011/ob305.asp
http://www.bellissimolawgroup.com/2012/03/processing-of-successful-appeal-cases.html