Sorry if I made any mistake. That lady is there for quite some time, it was actually a long conversation to know about surviving ways with information of some old friends and their own experiences. We spent nice time with them. She was expecting us to complete all the formalities, for the last one year she kept one floor of her house empty for us (telling this to let you know how close we are). So when she called to warn us about the weather and job conditions means asking not to move now. I shared the information because this year when I went to USA, I just checked the weather condition of Austin, Texas but when I landed at New York, went out from the air port was totally shocked with chilling weather! That I wanted to tell BE PREPARED FOR COLD AND DIFFICULT JOB SITUATION.
I repeat when some one moves to Canada during the winter certainly s/he will face tough time than moving during summer. I explained well about it before. If one knows about the type of difficulties ahead then easier to prepare accordingly. Who have decided and arranged to move during winter and who are later I appreciate and encourage them because finally you have to move. But I meant to say please do not give up like many other immigrants who returned to their home - last week I wrote about Mr. Ahmed who went there during November and came back now feeling sorry. Another forum member also did the same - I request him to give his personal experiences.
Finally, I am self made - I lost my father at the age of 10, since then I struggled, at the age of 22 I left the country with just single clothes and totally empty handed, when I was in transit for 5 hours I was hungry but could not buy any food, before landing I asked extra meal because I did not know when and from where to get next meal. My luck favored me that 2 am I was offered food. I do not want to remember those hard days but also I will never forget as well. I give my example how to get success by doing hard work but must first set a goal and to prepare for the worst.
When I came back to Bangladesh two years ago I chalked out the difficulties we were going to face so believe me, we suffered less and still leading a decent life by the grace of Allah. I never discourage any one but always say please keep your mind calm and cool, for a better future you have to accept the sufferings.
Let us close the matter here. If I hurt any one my personal apology, my thanks and appreciation to those who understood and tried to make others understanding. Cheers to be successful in Canada.
