Hello,
I have a question.
Could it be some form of tactic for lawyers to suggest going for the ADR and then when it gets closer suggest that it might be a waste of time. The ADR fee is cheaper....going to a full hearing is more. I find it strange that my lawyer was very confident about my ADR and now has changed his mind saying that we should just go to a full hearing. My date is March 6 and well I wanted to believe that my lawyer was a decent person and would be there for me (why he is being paid). It just adds to my fustration that even these damn lawyers dont give a damn and just see us as desperate people who would believe anything and basically pay anything just to have our love ones be here with us. When I spoke to him recently it was as if he did not even read the notes that came from CIC. I told him that I will be going to the ADR and he will be there because he did say from the get go that going to the ADR will not affect having to go to a full hearing should need be. I want to be there, I want to tell my side and I most of all I got the ADR date and how dare I give this up.
What do you think...
I have a question.
Could it be some form of tactic for lawyers to suggest going for the ADR and then when it gets closer suggest that it might be a waste of time. The ADR fee is cheaper....going to a full hearing is more. I find it strange that my lawyer was very confident about my ADR and now has changed his mind saying that we should just go to a full hearing. My date is March 6 and well I wanted to believe that my lawyer was a decent person and would be there for me (why he is being paid). It just adds to my fustration that even these damn lawyers dont give a damn and just see us as desperate people who would believe anything and basically pay anything just to have our love ones be here with us. When I spoke to him recently it was as if he did not even read the notes that came from CIC. I told him that I will be going to the ADR and he will be there because he did say from the get go that going to the ADR will not affect having to go to a full hearing should need be. I want to be there, I want to tell my side and I most of all I got the ADR date and how dare I give this up.
What do you think...