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"If you look back you will stumble and fall"... Very wise words, thank you.

No apologies necessary brother. :)

I agree with you, women and men have right to refuse to a proposal for any reason but once a knot has been tied one should show commitment. Now apply that to my wife, if she was not emotionally ready to be a wife she should have refused the proposal and after she had tied the knot she should...

Thanks bro, sorry I did not get a chance to reply to the messages yet, I will after I reply to the posts. People can change their habits, but people can not change their nature. And after all the negativity I was becoming the kind of husband I did not want to be.

I know there is much more to a relationship that "I love you" but my point was that we did not even had that. For the visit visa, we were suppose to do the Rukhsati but she was not thrilled about it before the completion of the sponsorship.

Thank you brother. May Allah bring happiness in your life as well. Ameen!

Thank you brother, and as I mentioned before that, this is just few things that I have mentioned. Please remember me in your prayers.

Thank you brother, yes I certainly feel that I have done the right thing. Almost six months ago when things got bad I discussed this matter with my mother and father and I told them that I am thinking about leaving her. At that time they were really against my decision and told me to at least...

Thank you sis for your kind words, but as I said my wife told me she does not want emotional relationship the first time we spoke that was two years ago and she never changed her mind. It was not the matter of one week I had two years to think about this decision.

I know sis, I know everyone here cares for me and wish what is best for me. And I really appreciate it.

Trust me brother, after my old parents traveled to Pakistan, did all the work to do the rishta, and after two years of my emotional, financial and everything other investment, ending it was the easiest solution.

My mother did istikahra long time ago but she got a negative result but she dismissed it and stayed positive. I did the istikhara last week and after that my wife for the first time told me very clearly that she does not want a loving relationship and she blamed all the issues on my attitude. At...

I am not worried at all, in fact my heart is completely at peace right now.

Final decision is done verbally one week ago. I did not get any reply from my wife or her family for one week so I finally withdrew the sponsorship yesterday.

Yes, but I will initiate the process to end it in few days. I have already withdrawn the sponsorship application.

Have to go, I will check back later and reply to the comments. Bye guys.

Guys I have already done the Iskikhara. And in reply she told me all the things, at that time I knew what my decision should be. Allah had made it clear in my heart.

Obviously this is just a small glimpse of our relationship. Many things I have not discussed. I understand what your saying, love can mean different thing for different people. I dont believe in saying it all the time, I rather people show it instead of saying it. What if someone dont show it...

Thank you sis, I am trying to get over it and start my life again. Please keep me if your prayers.

Thank you sis.