Update, we got the scary letter. the Procedural Fairness Letter. How do you prove to someone that you've spent nearly every day together in the same room for 2.5 years? (aside from the 6 months we were seperated due to the pandemic.)
Like, they just do not believe us. Part of me is worried because we are same-sex, as what they are asking for is something that most marginalized folx don't have. "Proof of Bills". I had all finances cut off from me. I don't touch them once bit. I haven't since December 2019. For the whole year of 2019 I paid bills in my name, cause it was way easier to do that than to get my partner on my account as we were both in the US at the time. I also got divorced in Summer of 2019, so I worry that is related. However, with the lack of information given and no direction on the documents they'd like to see (since they keep mentioned 2019), I'm at a loss as to what to do.
We'd love to get an immigration lawyer, however we are very lower-class and can't afford in anyway. Access to money is something we just don't have.