I completely get what you're saying. I thought exactly like this at first, but there were a few things that don't support this idea. Like:Legally speaking- you are not married. Even if you get the COPR before 7th December also, legally you are not married.
If you get your remedical done in another 4-5 working days, am sure you would get your PPR any end of October and passport stamping will happen in 5-6 working days.
So, by 1st or 2nd week of November 2019, you would have Visa stamped and COPR in hand.
At this point of time you are not married and legally you can enter Canada as single and apply for PR card. There is no need to tell anything to immigration agents at airport, as you are not married yet(if you land before 7th December).
Post your marriage, you can process a different application for your spouse.
1. If I get the stamping by mid november, i will have less than 15 days to enter Canada and come back. So from india I will be spending 2-3 full days just for flying. And also over INR 1lac on the tickets.
2. I will have only 2-3 weeks for the wedding and I can't spend that on going to Canada cause I'm assuming this will be my first and last marriage and I want to enjoy a little
3. I am currently working and I'm fine with it if adding my spouse will take another 6 months extra.
Hence my only concern is that, since they have sent a remedical request, should I inform them about the scheduled wedding right now? Or should I inform only after the wedding? Of course I Understand that after the wedding I obviously have to inform them, but wanted the advise of you folks if it is okay to inform them now?
P.S. Thank you for answering