IMPORTANT MESSAGE: MINDSET BEHIND REMAINED FOCUS ON POSITIVES
There is a wonderful analogy about the
HONEYBEE and the
FLY. It teaches us a valuable lesson to
improve our thoughts and
the quality of life.
The
HONEYBEE flies from flower to flower extracting only the nectar without disturbing the flower. The mindset of
HONEYBEE is to seek the essence of each flower. Even in a place filled with rotting garbage rather than giving its attention to all the filth, the
HONEYBEE keeps its focus on finding nectar and it eagerly flies to even a single tiny flower amidst miles of garbage. In our life, we have much to learn from the
HONEYBEE; it is teaching us the art of focusing on the
POSITIVES and dealing appropriately with the faults in each other. There will be faults everywhere and in everyone. There is never a shortage of things to complain about, but just as the
HONEYBEE seeks nectar even in the most unexpected of places, we can aim to seek the positive qualities in those around us.
The
FLY represents another type of mindset in our life. Although each species can be appreciated for its particular instinctive nature. Still, we can study them to learn relevant lessons to improve the quality of our own lives. On an otherwise healthy body, the
FLY will focus on sucking an infectious scab. The
FLY may travel over hundreds of flowers but what does it focus on? It focuses in tasting garbage and excrement. It ignores the sweet fragrance of rose gardens and even in the best of circumstances and in the tidiest places, the
FLY will focus on the
TRASH.This represents the mindset of ignoring the good qualities in those around us, and focusing on their faults. It is so easy, it requires no effort to see the flaws in others. Fault finding is a habit, the more we give into it, the more we become obsessed by it.
In our life, it is important to have well-wishing communication, focused on appreciating the positive while dealing with the negatives in a gracious and constructive manner. In doing so, we learn to recognize the positive qualities within our own self and to overcome unhealthy low self esteem.
HONEYBEE mentality or
FLY mentality,
THE CHOICE IS YOURS